I keep forgetting to mention that I've been finding cat s- on the floor at least once everyday now. I know that in at least in 2 instances Rocky did it intentionally. And it smells absolutely heinous! So bad that it permeates throughout the entire apartment!!!

I haven't had a Feliway dispenser in that room for a while. It's really intended for urine marking and scratching, but I just bought more refills, and will be putting one in there as soon as they arrive to see if it helps. It's supposed to have a calming effect.

If it doesn't, it's probably not just a behavioral problem, and I think we should take him to the vet. Corey will have to come with me tho. I can't even carry Buddy, who is half his size, in a carrier.

WE find throw up puddles every where in the house. fur balls, food saliva. It is gross. sometimes they throw up on the guest bed. It is a vera bradly bed spread and it cleans up really well...can't even tell which is great!
sorry about your pets I sympathize with you..


bizi

poor rocky

I will begin with good news:

ALL my kidney function numbers are almost exactly the same now as they were before I started taking Vraylar :):):)
My two prior random blood sugars were 108 and 116. This time my glucose was only 93 :)

Now the bad news:

While I was in the "office" last night smoking the last of the MJ in my vaporizer (because I was ready to head off to bed), Corey was out smoking a cigarette. When I came back into the living room, Corey was coming inside, and I was blinded by one of those tac-light type flash lights that are supposed to disorient intruders... I stopped walking when I saw it. I'm lucky I didn't fall down. I'm handicapped and was stoned.

Apparently, before that, Ellen came down the fire stairs saying, "lets see what our neighbors are up to." She laughed when she saw Corey, and knocked on our next-door neighbor Mary's slider, but she didn't open the door. I guess Corey exchanged a few words with her "husband," Adam before he came inside.

I knocked on Mary's front door and asked her to text the b- to tell her if they flashed light into "my private residence" again, I would call the cops for invasion or privacy and harassment. I shouldn't have talked to Mary...I should have just called the cops then.

Next thing you know, one of their guests (who could barely stand up) decided to leave (because I had threatened to call the cops), and Corey said, "real smart... drive home s- faced." Which after more "conversation" led to Corey threatening to report him for DD.
Ellen, Adam, and another s- faced person came out, and there was a war of words and threats of violence on both sides until other people came out and drove those cars into the parking lot. They all came inside and I'm sure the drunk people left shortly after. We heard a little banging, but nothing else from them after that.

JUST WHAT I NEEDED... AN ESCALATION.
Why couldn't Corey just stay inside and ignore them? He was f'ing s- faced. That's why.

Corey never should have threatened to call the police on that guy. It's taken our feud to a whole new level now, so my anxiety will go up for sure.
And people like that don't fight fair, and usually not alone. They have plenty of scum bags friends, so now I have to worry about Corey getting jumped in the parking lot or something. Or them keying our car or smashing our windshield.
They can call the cops on us for.... I don't know what... but I don't care. We're not hiding drugs or guns like they are.

While I'm in the hospital, they will probably be loud because it will be Thanksgiving weekend. Corey will be dealing with my absence by getting super-drunk, and I won't be here to protect him from himself. So, I'll be laying in a hospital bed worrying about what's going on at home :(:(:(

The good news is that we've been hearing them talking about what sounds like them possibly moving, but when I went to drop the rent check off at the office, I asked Janet, and she said she hadn't heard anything about it.

some how it will work out
love
bobby

I am sorry that things escalated...more to worry about.
As if you needed anything else!
great news on your kidney and glucose readings.
(((((HUGS)))))
bizi

Kay

I'm so sorry things got that bad. Hopefully Corey can keep things
together when your in the hospital. Maybe he can go visit some
family for a day or so.

I'm sorry the neighbors got that messed up, and things escalated.
Next time your right call the cops. I would think that flashing
those kind of lights in your door is not legal.

But who knows. I'm glad you had other good news.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

Yesterday I did some thinking and decided it was a good idea to go down to the police department to apprise them of the situation since it was escalating, and to ask for advice. My original intention was to go by myself, but I changed my mind, and Corey and I left to head over there...

We ran into Adam in the hallway on our way out, and he said, "hi" to Corey. So, Corey asked him what the f- their problem was, and did they hate us or what? Adam said "no, not at all." I said I didn't want there to be this degree of animosity. A calm conversation progressed from there, where we told him how their behavior effects us. I told him that they would be rip- s- PO'ed if it was happening to them. Adam out-right lied about some things, BS'ed us about others, and tried to put all the blame on his friends, but he didn't once defend Ellen. Eventually, I just told him that the last time I went to the office, they said they had done all they could do, so I should just call the cops if there's a problem (which is true). So I said, "that's where we're at now." We didn't part on unfriendly terms tho.

Corey still wanted to go to the police department, but I said no. So far, I have been the one that has been about second chances, and have been adamant about NOT calling the cops in certain situations, and they KNOW that. I think Adam hearing ME say that we will be calling the cops in the future, and the office telling me to do so, should be a wake up call. I feel like we've come to some sort of understanding, but who knows?
At any rate, I feel better after the conversation, and less worried about leaving Corey home alone now.

We ended up driving through Burger King and coming back home lol.

The Complete Jane Austen Collection I bought off of Amazon is a beautiful hardcover book, but it is HUGE. I don't think I could comfortably read from it because my hands and arms are weak, and I don't know where I could rest it after abdominal surgery. I will return it if I can for free. Otherwise, I'll just keep it because it's so heavy, it will cost a mint to ship it. I ended up buying 2 cheap Jane Austen paperbacks, which is what I should have done in the first place.
For some reason, the pants I ordered aren't coming until today. I'll probably strike out with those, too :o

Tell me again, when is your surgery?
((((HUGS))))
bizi
sorry I am too lazy to read back thru your thread.:o

Kay

The book sounds good. Maybe keeping it to read later is the
answer. Really don't know.

Bizi
I think her surgery is the day before thanksgiving.

Donna :hug::grouphug: