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how awful!
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OMG Donna, that's terrible!

Both of you must have been absolutely frantic! I'm so glad that those ladies were there to help you. I feel so badly that Derrick was there lost and alone

I'm glad that Derrick came home to you last night. I hope that being there made him feel safe and better. How are the two of you doing today?
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I'm tired and I think he probably even though he thinks he slept
good is too. I got about 2 1/2 hours sleep so I know why I am.

We got a call alittle while ago to do the incident report. So he
was upset for a while. And I was worried about what might
happen, but I think it will get better now. He did a good job
telling the lady what had happened. I'm glad he and I had talked
about whether he really wanted to work with this guy again or
not. Because I wasn't sure I wanted him too. And he thought about
it and had decided no he didn't. What if he had run out of gas, out
in a different area, and they had to wait on someone else to get to
them. Or even the guy had walked away. So the lady at the end
said, that he wouldn't be working with Derrick again. So we kind
of both looked at each other. And I told her that was good because
we had already made that decision. And would she make sure that
his person that was in charge knew because he was scheduled for
tomorrow and I didn't want him just showing up and no one there.

So its been handled twice. So now to wait on the report, and to
see if he gets turned into Adult protective services. And I'm also
guessing that he might get terminated from the company. But
that we may not know.

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OMG!!!
What a nitemere!
I am glad that he was found safely. I am trying to understand how you must have felt. I am not a mother so I have no way of knowing the terror that you felt other than what you wrote to us..
I am glad that it is resolved for the time being.
hugs to you both tonight.
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I can't believe that they even asked you if Derrick wanted to work with that guy again or not. At a minimum, he should be fired because of what Derrick (and you) went through

I hope now that Derrick has already dealt with the incident report, he won't have to relive the experience anymore, and can heal

And I hope that the next person he gets is wonderful. He deserves that. And I don't want you to have to worry about anything like that happening again
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I personally Am not worried about if he works with others.

And honestly they didn't give us a choice as to whether
he worked with Derrick again. It was taken out of our
hands. It just originally sounded like they were thinking
he would.

So it was fine that they told us that.

Derrick is dealing with the issues. But he is still really
stressed and upset but that is fine. He is safe and knows
it. We will deal with it. The team of experts he has other
than the person that technically assigned this person has
all responded to me about this. And talked to us. So we
will see what happens.

I think its odd that i still get very little response from her.

I am not sure how or who we will get next but we will do more.

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Donna,

You are a great mom.
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