I personally Am not worried about if he works with others.

And honestly they didn't give us a choice as to whether
he worked with Derrick again. It was taken out of our
hands. It just originally sounded like they were thinking
he would.

So it was fine that they told us that.

Derrick is dealing with the issues. But he is still really
stressed and upset but that is fine. He is safe and knows
it. We will deal with it. The team of experts he has other
than the person that technically assigned this person has
all responded to me about this. And talked to us. So we
will see what happens.

I think its odd that i still get very little response from her.

I am not sure how or who we will get next but we will do more.

Donna

Donna,

You are a great mom.

!00% Agreed

Thanks ladies for the votes of Confidence.

I've been sending some really interesting emails the last few
days. I've sent them to the whole team of people that deal
with Derrick. Yesterday I started sending them were they
had to mark them as received and read.

I have one person the mainly most important at his provider place
that was refusing to talk to me for a while. I was getting a little
irritated before. But when I hadn't heard from her on Wednesday,
then Thursday. I decided when I started sending on Thursday,
I would just start requesting a read receipt, and send to her supervisor,
and the supervisor of the work person, this particular supervisor used to
get Derrick's things a lot anyway so I knew his person wouldn't think
I was targetting her, but I even went as far as to let her know I was sending
just to make it not look like I was singling out the other person. It had
nothing to do with her work.
Any way I heard nothing again yesterday from her, and it was irritating me.
But then last night, I decided after hearing Derrick say that he didn't trust at this point anyone, but his old person who has no hours there, and her twin sister who has a few. And has offered to do his hours. So I sent the email to the whole group again. And her immediate supervisor was included this time. this morning her immediate superviser was the name that popped out at me when I opened my emails. It was a I am sorry he had the Purdue experience I had read the incident report. And I will let Shawnon do his hours. If she will do them. THen I find the other girl his person in charge. WHo has no one. But has answered finally after weeks of asking all my questions.
As because Derrick has already big eye smiles asked me to thank Paula the other supervisor I forward her email, letting the whole team know she has okayed the hours. And this is what Derrick wants. And its what I expect.

And then I send Paula a very nice, email from Derrick and I telling her how
I was so happy to read him her email. but the best part was to see for the first time, the big bright eyes and smile in them from her words.
And she responded back right away. With very nice words about me.

Wow, it was the best thing that could happen for me today. I really love this lady. She tells me she hopes to meet me one day. Not remembering we have meet a few years ago when I set them up for Will.

Donna

This is awesome!
I am glad things are working out.
((((HUGS))))
bizi

So happy to hear that you and Derrick are feeling better about things.



M

You are just a tireless advocate for Derrick. He's so lucky to have you for a mom. I'm so happy that after all the work you put in, he got what he wanted, and is so happy!

If what you just relayed about what you did for Derrick is any indication of what you do at work, you must be absolutely fantastic at your job, and your kids must be very lucky to have you on their side