[Mari]

Anyone with half-way reasonable parents is lucky.

M.

[bizi]

I have been thinking about you.
You can get thru this....
I think you are doing well, keeping up with work hubby and it being hurricane season and all. This is a bad timeof the year for them to come for a visit.....
((((HUGS))))
bizi

[Nikko]

I hope the visit is less stressful than it seems.

You can pull through this, your stronger than you think.

Hang on tight.

Hugs, Nikko

[mymorgy]

if you feel like sleeping while they are here SLEEP.....two against one...they are a team even though you have your husband....
i feel so sad for you because I had parents who worked as a team. As I mentioned, when I visited them when I was older I used to vomit when I got to their home....violently....
just try to protect yourself...if you can...I couldn't
Bobby

[Pamster]

I am so lucky my mom is so wonderful to us. She really understands and wants to help, not interfer and try to run my life like I know so many other parents try to. I think she's awesome, today when my computer died this morning I called her and had already asked her if she'd help us get a Dell to replace mine because the Hard Drive has been making funny noises. So today when it was a total Hard Drive failure I asked her for help and she ordered us the new computer right then.

I wish everyone had a mom like mine. She's something else. Going to be sixty this year and still looks wonderful to me. I sure hope things go well for their visit Mari. I'll be thinking about you and them and keeping you in my prayers. I know it's not easy sometimes, to deal with parents, but they do love you right? Try to keep it in mind if you can and definitely SLEEP when you have to sleep. I know how much trouble sleep gives you, my T told me about a new sleep medicine, I forget the name but it works like Melatonin. I'll get the name next visit. It started with an R and kinda sounded like Ronicin or something.

Hope all is well with you and you don't have much anxiety about their upcoming visit. Keep us posted.

[bizi]

IT is rozeram and hope it works for some...did nothing for me...
unfortunately.
hang in there, sleep when you can, try to enjoy them if you are able...

((((HUGS))))
bizi

[DiMarie]

Originally Posted by Mari

Anyone with half-way reasonable parents is lucky.

M.

I know Mari, I had rough times too.
Didn;t help living next door either....
But, as they got older, ill, and passed away, some days I find myself wishing they could come back a day.

I am thinking of you, and really try to find good in the visit, see if you can ask about the grandparents, great grands, getting to know your geneology. I started this just before my Mom passed away and then found out she had tons of old family history clippings. With her gone by then I had no way to know how to expand or personaize it.

My hugs and thoughts are with you
Dianne

[Dmom3005]

Mari

SO glad things are working out better than you thought they would.

I'm also glad that you could just send them on their way. I'm hoping they didn't say anything about that.

I'm also so glad your hubby could go along with them. I'm seeing this as a good thing. Hoping that you get better sleep tonight.

Donna

[Mari]

Hi,


Mom was complaining about being tired.
And Dad was mysterious about tomorrow.
They have my car. He said that they will come to our apt at 4:30 pm to talk and then to go together to meet two of my friends for dinner.

That's fine.
I plan on sleeping better tonight.

Mari

[bizi]

What are they going to do tomorrow?

hope you sleep tonight!
(((HUGS)))
bizi