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Old 09-13-2007, 11:19 AM #1
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God will guide you through this difficult time. Doug will be at peace and out of pain. You have been his Angel, never forget that.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

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Old 09-13-2007, 12:11 PM #2
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You are so strong and have shown us all what an amazing person you are. Its will not be easy and you should do what you feel you are up to. Remember Doug as he was. You are his angel

God Bless you and Doug.

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Old 09-13-2007, 12:43 PM #3
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you have been so unearthly wonderful to him...if you are not sure of the consequences, maybe you shouldn't go. You have already moved mountains...true giving is when you don't diminish yourself in the process.
I am behind you a 10000 percent
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I just got back from the hospital. I just had to go. Doug is in a coma and the hospital won't pull the tubes until his power of attorney gets there who is not family. I lost it in the emergency and left Doug's room until I could compose myself. Doug did move his one hand in the emergency when I talked to him but I didn't know that was possible if your in a coma. He could go very soon or last days after they cut off life support.

Right now I'm numb.
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i know how heart wrenching this is. don't feel that you have to be there. doug knows how you feel about him. keep remembering special moments.

his pain is almost over.

may the lord be waiting for doug with open arms.
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This sounds so hard to bear....
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when my father was in his coma, he came out of it and told my mother and me to shut up....his final words on earth...we were fighting about my sister...my father always said we would never let him die in peace lol.....how prophetic.....there came a point when he was in the coma when I felt he was no longer in his body..as if his soul had departed.....I also "saw" a bust of three holy men besides his bed at one point....at the funeral I had the strongest impression that he was looking down at me from the skies and his body was just a container...no longer my father....it was very comforting....
try not to be alone during this period if you can....use this board to express your emotions if you can and know we are so close to you.
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