Nikko

Hmmm, I would say just pack the stuff up and have it ready. Or call
the others and have them come get it for him. That way you don't
have to deal with him.

I think you are doing a great job handling this.

Donna

Yesterday he called drunk, and said he wasn't coming by because he had car trouble.

Then he said he come over on HIS time, because I am on welfare (I am on disability) and he doesn't sit on his *** all day.
Then he said go take your meds.:(

Then he said he still had a key and will come in even if I am not here. Then he said no he didn't have a key, it was under one of the rocks outside my front door. He said he would leave it under the mat in the morning, well there is no key there.:mad:

My mom spoke to him he was cruel and vulgar. Then he called, I didn't answer he said he got bit by a dog and put ice on it, but didn't know what to do, and knew I knew a lot about animals and to call him to tell him what to do. DUH go to the ER

I am really upset. I am going to call the management of these homes and see if they will change the locks.

I am really upset about this. He said there is nothing I can do, I said you are not on this lease.

I can't even talk anymore. I don't need this.

Nikko:grouphug:

I know from his ex-wife that he is all talk. She said he is a drunk, liar, cheater, and insecure, he isn't violent, it's all talk.



Nikko

Maybe your land lord will change the locks for you...if nothing else I would have them changed.
he could jsut as easily make a copy if he does give one back.
I don't trust him on this.:mad:
bizi

I called maintenance for the rental homes, waiting for a call back to change the locks.

He is two different people, one person when he is drunk, which is mean, says cruel things, verbally abusive.:confused:

Then when sober, he is as nice and wants me back and all that crap.

I just hope he gets the rest of his things out of here on Sat. he called and is coming here after work for some things, at least then he will be sober.

Nikko:mad:

{{{{{Nikko}}}}}

befuddled2

Good time to switch
 

your locks and your mood!
I have been in your shoes, and i'm also a lawyer.
one of the good things about bipolar is that we can switch moods real fast! now is one of those times... switch mood to MEAN :D and change those locks ASAP.
If the management won't do it within the same day (meaning within the same daylight hours), you have the legal right to call a locksmith, get it done yourself, and get reimbursed. you might have to call the police to get this done. but please please don't take a risk on your safety. and never underestimate what an angry drunk violent ex will do... might be best if you slept elsewhere till your locks are changed.
be safe girlfriend. :hug:

Nikko


Just hi and a :hug:


Stay strong , stick by your descision, ignore the venom,

RISE ABOVE IT.


David

Thanks all......I got the key back yesterday when he stopped by for a few things, he even knocked on the door.

He said he is moving into these apartments right around the corner. :eek:

He said he is going to get a truck and boxes and move everything out tomorrow (Sat). I hope he is true to his word. He doesn't have anything big here, except a bed in the spare room. His brother has a huge truck, don't know why he just doesn't use that.

I will find out what time, I said 10am, he said he will try to get the truck and all by then. I said again call first.

The maintenance people have not called me back yet. I have to call again, usually they are pretty good.

I have my Domestic Violence session today, I am glad I never stopped going. It reinforces everything I have learned from them.

I am hanging tough....because he started oh I love you, and will you think about getting back together, I said no and please go now. He only picked up pictures of his daughter yesterday, he could of loaded up his car, but he said he was tired.

He better not prolong this.

Hugs, Nanc

Well, he will be here in a half and hour. He said it will take him all day. He is using his brother's truck which is huge with a long open back end.

I really don't see how, I could see if I was moving the entire house, it would take all day. But he doesn't have anything huge here, except a bed.

The other stuff is clothes, kitchen things, some things on the walls.

Wish me luck, going to be another Saturday from hell, I feel.:confused:

Nikko:eek: