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Old 11-29-2007, 08:12 PM #1
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Dear High hat,
Oh this makes me sad for you....I can't imagine losing someone so special....
You sounded like you were a happy couple....
thank you for sharing some of your story with us.
I am sorry that this has happened....
sending extra hugs for you tonight.
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Old 11-30-2007, 12:44 AM #2
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I hope that you are comforted in knowing that you are who you are today because you knew her.

She has given you a great gift.

That is why you are writing about it now... it isn't too soon... who's definition of too soon is correct... who is to know but you....

and something moved you to write... something inside of you

I think you may be on the path to discovering how to carry on her special legacy...

she is inside you and will be there when you need her.

I'm so so sorry for your loss.

and sorry we had to meet this way.
I'm Addy from the Survivors of Suicide forums and old MGH forums.

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Old 11-30-2007, 11:19 AM #3
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I too am so sorry for your loss. She sounds like she was a wonderful person.

Remember all the good times, grieve when you want to, there is no set rule.

She is with you in spirit and soul and always will be.

What you wrote was beautiful.

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Unhappy hello highhatsize

dear HighHatSize,

i am so sad for you. i am honoured by your sharing your story. i read your post several times. do take your own time, and your own ways, to grieve. every loss is different. and this is so deep...

come here if you want to share more, or just for some company. take care of yourself.



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highhatsize...


A meanigful tribute to your friend,,,your words are meaningful, and direct..

You will get through this..


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Dear Friends,

Thanks to everyone for your consolations.

Annie was one in a hundred million.

Several days ago I finally finished sifting through her apartment for mementos and valuables that her family would want to keep. She was a pack rat, (read hoarder & clutterer), so it was tough.

However, her beloved cats have been adopted by people just as cat crazy as herself, [and me]; the family has all that they want in memory; so all that remains is to donate the rest to charity, clean the apartment, and close the doors. The worst is over.

I will always remember her assertive compassion and laser-guided empathy. What a woman! What a psychiatrist she would have made!

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Highhatsize

I'm so glad that you have gotten that done.

I also am so glad that you have gotten the cats all adopted by
some loving people.

Please take care of yourself.

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I will always remember her assertive compassion and laser-guided empathy. What a woman!

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I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9,
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Dear Highhatsize,
You are wonderful to take on the task of the apt. and the cats.



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