oh no!!! not another deletion! i do understand deleting posts, because i do that myself, usually most often due to feeling awkward.

Mari, that goes for you too! i only got a chance to scan... not really absorb.

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I wish we could ALLLLL (and yes that includes yours truly ) be ok with this ... to post, talk, share.... even with controversial info - and perhaps especially with that.

I repeat from my earlier post: information, perspectives, are just that, to take or leave. Each of us has this irrevocable prerogative. (we do also have the prerogative of deleting, yes, we do. ) But i believe it to be more valuable in posting, whether in agreement or otherwise, to be respectful rather than silent.

Silence is less useful than respectful disagreement.

there you have my third postal perspectives, for better or for worse.

~ waves ~ sadly as i think perhaps my first post contributed to the second deletion

heck darn i fixed formatting so much i got the "last edited comment. darn. hate that. lol!)
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I guess I should not of posted to this original thread. I don't think I got the entire story.

I wish I knew how to just delete it.

Sorry....Nikko

Dear Nikko,
I am sorry if I offended you...I did not mean to.
I tried to PM you but you are not accepting any....
I hope you are not mad at me....
bizi

I'm okay, I will turn on my PM - didn't even know it was off.

You can email me too.

Nikko