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05-15-2008, 08:09 PM
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Dear Mari,
You sound very sad.... I am sorry.... It was not nice that your colleages left this up to you. I don't like surprises and being spontanious...isn't in my vocabulary for the most part. I am not a good conversationalist... This would have stressed me out...I am very self conscious meeting /being with new people. ...I like predictable things.... Everything has a domino effect...what if this...then that... I wish you weren't so hard on yourself. You are a wonderful woman. ((((HUGS)))) bizi
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. Hattie the black and white one wrestling with hazel, calico. lost hattie to cancer..... Happiness is a decision.... 150mg of lamictal 2x a day haldol 5mg 2x a day 1mg of cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9, |
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05-15-2008, 08:50 PM
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I tried to make sure that the meetings with the visitor today did not suck.
And I was mostly succeeded. I wish I could have skipped the lunch and come home and slept. My nap was as important as everyone else's bs reason for skipping out. I came home and slept for 3 hours. Now I feel like I might have come down with some virus or something. I'm going to stay home and sleep all day tomorrow. M. |
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05-15-2008, 09:20 PM
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Sounds like a great idea!
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. Hattie the black and white one wrestling with hazel, calico. lost hattie to cancer..... Happiness is a decision.... 150mg of lamictal 2x a day haldol 5mg 2x a day 1mg of cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9, |
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05-16-2008, 03:32 AM
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After World War Two was a time of great opportunity. The economy was on the upswing. Now it's on the downswing. We are in the same boat. Hang in there. Your heart is in the right place. That's a good place to be. You have a nice rest today. Brokenfriend |
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05-16-2008, 10:03 AM
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Oh Mari, I'm so sorry you're feeling so low, I hope a day of rest helps. I know how hard it can be to be in that uncomfortable position of having to make conversation with acquantaces. I stumble over my tongue, say things that I have to backtrack to resay to have them make sense. It's all very unnerving.
 You shouldn't have had to be the only one to do that, it wasn't very fair that your co workers put you in that position. I hope you feel better soon Mari.  
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I love my family, my friends, (this means YOU!) my cat, my nails, my Necchi sewing machine and my turtle! . |
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05-16-2008, 04:44 PM
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Mari
I'm so sorry this has happened. I empathize with you. I know how uncomfortable it can be at times. We are conditioned to accept noise as the norm and distractions are unprofitable. I believe there is a voice in silence, that most never tap into. I'm quite proud of myself lately for handling new clients and going out there in the field by myself. Now it's nothing. I enjoy it, I enjoy talking to people who don't know anything about me or my past.  I hope you feel better soon and are able to get some rest
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. . . . Cats nap, only humans put them "to sleep". Sterilize, don't euthanize!! BJ |
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05-16-2008, 05:24 PM
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Dear Mari
I love you. I hug you. {{{Mari}}} You have a great brain, but people messed with it to make their own lives easier. Or more fun. Try boundaries. They sound cold and tiresome, but they work. It is a way of defending yourself without attacking. You are entitled to space and restful time for yourself. Not only entitled, you need them. In order to continue to be a person that everyone can rely on. |
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05-16-2008, 05:56 PM
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hey sweets...i haven't read all the replies....but..
it takes two make a conversation. try not to take all the blame if lunch didn't go too well. the other half needs to add some spark and something to talk about too. don't tell anyone...but i can't think of thing to say most of the time around my husbands clients.  ole yappy me? strange huh? for some reason nothing they say interests me.
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05-16-2008, 06:37 PM
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Mari,
Seriously don't be so upset, which I personally know is easier said than done. I can't even count the number of times I've been in that situation. I either can't shut up, or can't think of a dang thing to say. Either way it feels awkward and I'm honestly not sure what to do, either. As far as sleep goes, are you on klonapin or lorazepam to help you relax enough? It's working somewhat for me. |
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