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Old 10-31-2006, 07:19 PM #1
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Nikko, hang in there. It will be over soon, but I'm sure the waiting is killing you. I have a good friend going through the same thing right now. Don't get hard on yourself. You don't have to do anything you don't feel like. No one is going to judge you. Keep in touch. I always enjoy reading your posts.
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Old 11-01-2006, 01:43 AM #2
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Hi, Nikko,
Waiting stinks big time.
I hear you.
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Old 11-01-2006, 09:31 AM #3
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Thanks everyone, I appreciate all your support more than you know.

I do not have to answer to his public defender. Since it is the state vs him, because I was such a mess and afraid to press charges.

I only have to talk/answer to my prosecutor, and give my input. I suppose I will have to answer to the judge if asked.

Yet, my court advocate can for me, but I would have to have it written down, and I can't do that, since I do not know what or if she will ask me anything.

I will be busy today, which is good, and tomorrow the DV counsler, which is good.

I agree BF2 that I should have an appt. ready for Monday, because I don't know how I will feel. I will do that tomorrow when I see my DV counsler.

On Friday it isn't until 2pm my time, I so wish it was at 9am, so I could get up and just get ready and go.

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Old 11-01-2006, 11:09 AM #4
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have you considered asking an advocate from the women's shelter to go with you just for moral support? someone to hold your hand and keep you focused until its time? It might help.

How are you today?
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Old 11-02-2006, 09:28 AM #5
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It's tomorrow - Friday. I have a court advocate and a womens shelter advocate going with me. These places are hidden, so men don't know where the shelters are. Therefore cannot find the womens shelter advocates.

Thank God!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Today I see my domestic violence counsler. They aren't allowed to go to court because they help women and they can't be seen by men, it could put there lives in danger, because the men hate DV counslers because they help there wives, girlfriends, etc The DV place is not a hidden place, it is where you go for group, counseling, and get all the resources they can give you.

I guess I am ready for tomorrow, lets just hope he shows.

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I am thinking of you and wanted to send you some postitive energy to help you make it thru the next 24 hours.
I hope you will sleep tonight.
Know that you are doing everything right.
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My thoughts are with you also. I hope it goes well.
Let us know what happens.
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