((((((((((((((((((Mrs Bear & Con)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I know how you hate to cry, so do I, but sometimes we just can't hold it back, so it's okay. Damn I do it so much, I wonder if I have any tears left in me.

You are under stress from your job and your son's upcoming surgery, all my thoughts and prayers and strength are with you both. Kids kick back from surgery a lot quicker than adults, so that is one good thing.

Boss's well don't even get me started on them, they seem that their lives revolve around work and that's it. Makes me mad.

Hugs, Nikko

Hi, Bear,
If crying works, then do it more often.

My boss is something else too.
I sometimes have to make up stuff about going out of town for her to leave me alone. Then she calls and leaves messages anyway. Thank goodness for caller id.

I hope Con is feeling a little bit better knowing that a surgeon has him scheduled at last.

mari

I for one am so glad you are finally crying....and that in a strange way you are finally taking care of yourself. It might be a new beginning and maybe you will start learning to be more moderate and forgiving of yourself. You treat yourself ruthlessly. If you give others the impression that you can walk on water, they come to expect it. If you start giving them the more accurate impression that you can't, all the better. Remember you are a role model for your children and you don't want to create a hard act to follow.
KEEP ON CRYING and thank goodness you are having tears come out...they are poisons coming out of your body. You are wonderful, brave, and everything else special but you don't need to be perfect.
Bobby