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08-11-2015, 07:57 AM | #8 | |||
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Right now he is not talking to me still. I have some plans for this upcoming weekend in the air. Might need to cancel with some old friends and will cancel if he is not talking to me by Friday. I certainly cannot have people over with him acting this way. I did go to the two websites you posted and ticked off quite a few of the "emotional abuse" signs. In all honesty, I think all of us have been victim to some and even perpetrator. But he is for sure abusing me emotionally. I knew that years ago. He would probably stomp out of a couples counseling if it did not go his way. Or after we leave he will deny the therapist said something or pointed out any problems he might have. When he was at a neurology appt that my daughter took him to, he denied that the doctor said he had depression. My daughter taped the entire visit for me to listen to later. I told him that I was listening to the tape and the doctor did say he was depressed! Now he agrees months later that he might be depressed. I would feel like I am abandoning him if I left him. I wish I had left sooner. Before the trauma. Even though he is never there for me when I am not feeling well, I cant do the same to him. I don't want any regrets later. I am aware that the stress from him can take a toll on me physically. I notice signs of that already. I guess what I need to do is take the suggestions on that site you recommended. On what to do if you are remaining in an emotionally abusive relationship. They do recommend to make it temporary though. Thanks for listening! |
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