Oh, yes, the new house!
Very exciting!
Quite a project you have undertaken. Well done, I am sure!

I am glad you have had a good day!

I feel it's a valuable skill to be able to set certain matters aside and attend to other matters, to live life. This gives us a break from certain stressful situations. Seems reasonable to me.

Yes, it's hard to ignore irrational behaviors and behaviors which hurt us.
However, there are circumstances when it's more sane to find a way to separate ourselves from the stress and have some enjoyment in our day/eves.

My first fiancé had become very abusive after we had become engaged, long ago. It was a huge change in him. It was a nightmare. He would not go to couples counseling, etc. He was very belligerent. It was shocking. I had eventually found out he had become addicted to cocaine. He was trying to hide this from me. He'd refused to give it up. I broke off the engagement.
I remember the obsessing, trying to make sense out of irrational behaviors, trying to get over the deep hurt, etc.

I am no expert; yet, I feel you are on a healthy track.

I hope you have an equally pleasant evening!



DejaVu