Oh dear... Im so, so, sorry....

I cant find the right words now.... I just... I mean, my prayers and thoughts are with that family and with you....



God Bless... I know how difficult grief is.... ugh.... I even cant manage it...

((((((((Kelly)))))))))
I am so very sad for that family and for you to have to relive your own sorrow this way

praying God's comfort for all of you tho I know that the heartache will probably never fully go away.

I hope that you and his widow will be able to draw strength and comfort from one another. I pray God will enable you to minister to her, and so bring balm on your own wounded heart too

Thank you. I'm really okay.....I just feel so bad for her. I know what she's going through and there isn't anything I (or anyone else) can do to ease it. It's just such a helpless feeling.

I want to tell her everything does get better....with time. But, I can remember hearing just that very thing and thinking I would clobber the next person who told me to "give it time". Time's her enemy right now....but it will be her friend eventually. But that's just something she has to discover for herself in her own time frame.

The expected death of someone is hard enough but the unexpected shock of losing someone like this is just brutal. It just makes me so sad that she has to go through this.

Kelly,

I am so sorry for your loss. I know you want to help and I am sure that you are by just being there for her. It must be so hard for you thinking of the loss of your husband and knowing how hard it is to get through. I just can't imagine.

I have been through such sadness since my Mom passed away suddenly on June 6th. She and Daddy were married for over 61 years. My Daddy is just so lost but is trying to find his place in the world now that Mom is gone.

Three months have passed and he knows she died peacefully in her sleep from a heart attack and is in God's hands now.

His health is so bad that each time I see him, he looks so small and fragile. We just talk about whatever comes up. It has been so hard. Almost unbearable at times but just being there is all we can do. We have to grieve together and get through it.

I am sure you know what I am talking about and you know from your loss that there is nothing that eases the pain of losing someone you love.

Kitty,
Sorry to hear this, maybe if you know her, you can offer to help her with some of that 'red tape' if you are able. Lord, knows we all carry our own heavy load and its impossible to take on a small part of someone else's. She might have family or friends to help or she might just need someone who really does know what she feels and how unrealistic her world is right now.