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Old 06-30-2010, 08:05 PM #1
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hugs thoughts and Prayer are headed your way...God bless you all and know that your Special Angel is at your side and though the grief may seem unmoundable know that there is nothing that you and God cannot get through together
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I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts.
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I'm so sorry woodhaven.

I haven't lost a spouse, but I have lost several babies, both my parents and my brother. I know that my own pain is much different to your's but I wanted you to know that I have some idea of what you might be going through, and that I feel for you.

Kitty had some very good advice and I hope you find it useful.

Please know that you're in my thoughts and prayers.
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bless your heart! i know what it is to lose a husband. i lost mine 9 years ago and i thought i was going to die myself. it was the worst thing i've ever gone thru, as we had just gotten married the year before. my husband died 12 days before our first anniversary. we learned he had cancer 5 months after we got married, and it had already spread to where it was inoperable.

i'm so very sorry for your loss. it is devastating, and i know you're grieving. there are basically 5 stages of grief: shock, anger, depression, bargaining, and acceptance. we go thru those stages at our own pace. grieving can take a long time, and some people take longer than others to recover. please don't let anyone try to tell you that "you should be over it by now." that's nonsense. you will know when you're beyond the grief, as we never really get "over it." just make sure you take care of YOU while you grieve. eat well and get the proper amount of sleep if you can. and come here to vent if yolu need to. God bless and take care. hugs, lee
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Just wanted you to know that you're in my thoughts and prayers.
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I am so sorry Mrs Woodhaven for you loss. May God bless you and hold you thru this awful time in your life.

My DH died in 2004.. and I feel what you feel.
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I am so sorry for your loss, Mrs. Woodhaven

Thank you for letting us know

You will be in my prayers
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I am not sure how I missed this thread...but I just wanted to extend my deepest sympathy
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