Hi Diandra,

Thanks for writing such a heartfelt message.
Each written response has brought tears of joy during this anniversary time.

I'd enjoy the type of gathering you describe. Some of us can, and do, get together, thankfully. The family splintering was significant in response to feelings about this event. In addition, family has suffered an astounding number of tragedies, which can take a huge toll on everyone. I'd once had it explained to me by an insightful psychiatrist -- She'd told me the number and frequencies of family tragedies would have a similar effect upon family members as the traumatizing effect upon people living in a war zone.

Some of us chose to seek help with grieving and trauma.
Those of us having chosen to seek help are able to get together and share with one another, and are able to have more rewarding relationships in general.

Some have not chosen to seek help.
It's an individual choice and one I do respect. Some feel they cannot withstand processing the events in therapy or otherwise. I can understand their feelings of overwhelm.

Thank you for your message of understanding, hope and healing.
Thanks, too, for your prayers.

With Deep Gratitude,
DejaVu

i am so sorry your loss DejaVu. i am sending heartfelt prayers your way.

Hi RSD ME,

My apologies for a delay in responding to your post. I had been away for several days recently.

Thank you for your kind support.

DejaVu

Thank you for that warmth of love covered generously with hope through which your light shines for each of us Deja

M56 and