i have thought about this for a week, looked back at our posts, and having given things a great amount of thought i have came to this reply....firstly , due to the fact i did not know you or your history,with regards grandmonkey, in any way i took offence. for that i am big enough to say sorry, to be honest i still don't understand but others do so that makes your response okay,
this may sound strange but to get a reply from someone in "willy wonka land"
doesnt quite sound right.
if you feel you have to give your form of support to "someone who appreciate's it" feel free.
for me that is a very strange response to someone offering support and friendship.
"heart of gold" take a step back, look at you replies and ask youself, is that what someone in need wants to read?
i have been here for 6 months or so , posted in the last couple, the people that have replied have left the most heart felt uplifting replies, i have cried on more than few occassions, but then maybe their idea of support was closer to how i felt?
you have 2000 odd posts, believe it or not i am not suggesting you are not a nice supportive freindly person, its just that your reply to me wasn't quite what i needed at the time.
steash