I wish that you were still here. It has been a week, but I still can't believe you are gone. In the end, the stiff person's took your life. I know it was all for the best as you were suffering.

I love you. Will see you soon.

Dear JessAnne,
I'm so very sorry that you have recently lost your mum.

I'm sorry you lost your dear Mum.

I began a thread last week to remember the special people we've lost. Please feel free to post in it. Would love to get to know more about you and your Mum.

http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/thread76315.html

i don't know what it is like to lose a mom. i'll that i can say is that i will be thinking about you and will pray for you.

Mums are so hard to lose. I am so sorry you lost yours!

I lost my mom and dad a year and half ago a month apart. It was very hard and scary

Both were suffering in different ways medically

I miss my mom awfully terribly bad

My Dad differently as he had alzheimers

3 month before they passed I had huge back surgery.

I used the meds for pain as way to get better for back

I realize now it was also to get through the broken heart

Pain med didnt do that
Just let me function

Trying to get off meds now

I know they are with me

Love is a very strong bond and as long as I am alive, they too live on

I understand the pain of losing parents. Yet we wouldnt of wnated them to lose us. It is the way it should be.

Give yourself time to mourn.

It is necessary to healing.

I hope this helps.

Do not medicate to stop feeling. It will roll you over when you not looking and make it that much harder to start healing

In our lives, we suffer a lot.. We walk through on several trials, that causes us to give up. Sometimes we think life is so unfair because of the hindrance we've been through. We struggle a lot to survive, but when things went wrong and everything is gone, we find someone to blame on and ask "why me?"..But things are just not constant, things may come and go, if not today, tommorrow, or never. But we need to value things that comes along our way, looking back the past may serve as our guidance to a new and better path forward..

“Every problem has a gift inside. We seek problems because we want their gifts.”

search thank god**,it might help you.....

I am so sorry for your loss. A week is not a lot of time. Time heals, the pain recurs from time to time. It just isn't so insufferable and is more accepting. billie

So sorry for your loss...I am so blessed to have my 86 year old Mum living with me. How hard it must be to have your Mum gone....she is still with you in your heart...she prays for you and loves you!!