I'm so sorry, but as one who's been there myself .... and I hope it doesn't sound too awful, but I'm glad that part is over for you. To be honest, I found that horrible time when I knew my baby was dead, much harder to bear than the actual D&C.

Oh yes I cried. I sobbed my heart out to know there was no possible chance that the doctors had made a mistake, but I guess deep down in my heart I knew the truth. It was just so hard to acknowledge that I wasn't going to ever hold that child.

I love the name that you chose. One of my favourite aunt's name was Marjorie, and her daughter (my cousin) and I are really good friends. We talk on the phone most days, and spend heaps of time together.

I'm also pleased to hear that your partner was supportive in your time of need. I kept hoping he'd be there for you.

Please keep in touch and let us know how you're doing. It does get better, I promise! It doesn't happen quickly, but it will happen.

(((((((((((broken)))))))))))

sending you hugs of understanding and prayers for healing.

God is with you always,,my tomoro be even a better day for you,,your in my prayers,,,,,,,keep posting and stay busy,,,,,,God loves and so does his people,,,,,bobber

Just checking in on you!
You and yours continue in my thoughts and prayers!
Offering healing hugs to you, too, more often than you know!

We're still here for you... anytime.

Hello. Im new here also. I also lost my baby son from SIDS. He died the day he turned 4 weeks old. I understand what you are going through to an extent. No one else buy you are in your shoes and knows exactly your circumstances, but, I did want to tell you that by sharing your feelings and not keeping it all stuffed inside you, you are doing the right step in healing. It's taken me alot of years to heal, and I still cannot get the image out of my mind of that last morning with Kory when I woke up and he was not alive anymore. I am sure that Im not the only one that can somewhat relate to you and your pain and loss. Keep sharing your feelings and dont keep them all stuffed inside you. For years, I turned to alcohol for numbnes and relief. Then I just came across many many more problems. This is NOT the answer by any means. I will pray for you, and just realize that you're not alone. Sincerely, Mykinzie