Rest.....heal.....

I am so sorry ---I have posted loads today, as it is my first day --- had a serious meltdown this morning...but a friend of mine came over today with the news as one of her closest's friends committed suicide yesterday....so thank my God I had enough to be able to be there for her...

( hug from a new person on the site) (((( ))))
Elissabetta

Christina...I am so sorry you've had to survive so much pain. Last week a man who I'd been friends with since he was eleven committed suicide, and I still haven't found a way to put it in perspective. I can barely imagine the grief and confusion you must be feeling.

I am so very sorry that all of you are having to deal with these things. They can be so very emotionally upsetting, adding to the stress load that you are already dealing with. You are all in my prayers this morning. If any of you need...you can pm me anytime, and I will answer withing 24 hours or less. Please try to get some extra rest if you can. Post and talk about it. That will help....

I hope you were able to get some rest. we are here for you .
Glad the services are all done. now I pray you can start healing . May Gods angels guide you and watch over you. Many blessings to you and yours. get as much rest as you can and eat healthy. your in my thoughts
peace
BMW

Welcome Elissabetta and thank you, I am so sorry for your friend. Sometimes when we think things are so bad for us it takes another's tragedy to put things in perspective. You are a good friend

Idealist, my sympathies to you and your friend's family. It really is a hard thing to wrap our minds around. For me I guess it is more a feeling of what horrible things were going through the heads of those that take their lives. Such misery. It makes me often feel so ineffectual and often I wonder how it is that we didn't notice or what did we miss.

I try to think of it as their purpose here is over. That is what gets me through. Especially with my FIL. He was devastated when his mother died when he was young and started drinking then and just got worse, often breaking down into tears lamenting her passing, then his father passed about six years ago. For me his passing was almost a blessing, he got to be with his parents and was no longer in pain, physically or mentally. I will miss him, he was a sweet guy.

As for the others, there was a lot of depression and drug abuse and we all know the two do not go well together even though you rarely find the latter without the former.

Thank you all for your kindness and for those who have lost, my sympathies.