Why do my friends and people around me always bring me down just for their own pleasure? This isn't fair. People keep telling me about the same problems they have with me. I can't always talk with people. I can't just trust people. It's not easy for me to do that. I just feel like crying now. I don't feel good at all due to my allergies bugging me to death, and yet people keep bringing me down. I wish I knew what to do to make myself feel better tonight. I feel so misserable.

Wishful

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howza 'bout some music Attachment 424
and some dancing?
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hope dancin' with da monkey cheers you up some

be true to yourself, wish..........

remember that old saying

"People say.......
What do they say?
Let them say!"

dont matter what they say........it is their problem not yours!

people who are always pointing a finger at someone else usually are the ones who need to do some soul searching themselves

we luv ya just the way you are, wishful

Thanks!!

Hey Wishful,

Sometimes, people do this because it makes them feel good about themselves to put other's down. These are not nice people.
Don't listen to them. I know that isn't easy sometimes, but just know that they are probably just miserable in their own lives and want to make other's miserable with them.
Keep your chin up,
Linda

Hey wishful,

I'm thinking that you are sensitive and so bullies pick on you. Maybe they don't even realise they are doing so. And maybe they pick on characteristics that they themselves display or have displayed and dislike in themselves.
Good luck with ignoring them or walking away....
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I went through sexual abuse as a child and although I have been in councelling for 8 years I still have trouble dealing with that issue.

I also use to let people walk all over me but I have done better about that for quite sometime now. I fight for what I believe is right and stand up for myself. The councellor taught me how to do that. It takes a lot of believing in yourself and learning that people can be hurtful due to jealousy or the lousy life that they have that they take it out on others.

I do know what you are going through but write down questions about these issues you deal with and ask your Dr. how to deal with each one. The councellor usually can walk you through each issue and how to handle it.

Hope you feel better soon.
Ada