Your so Kind,and tender hearted. I know,it never makes sense when a sister is rude,and cold. Let the cold melt away,and feel the warmth of our love for you ,you dear,and kind lady. Also the lord is close to the broken hearted. let go of the memory. You are a treasure,with a heart of gold. Brokenfriend:hug:

I am also so sorry to hear that your brother has passed. I'm sorry for your lose. Hold the memories of the good. Your are a compassionate lady who is very special. Brokenfriend:hug::hug::hug:

I hope that you are feeling better. Brokenfriend

Thank you BF. You're very kind.

You remain in my thoughts and prayers, Anne. :hug:

Wish you weren't so far away so we could throw you a Feel-better party. :grouphug: :circlelove:

Ann. Are you OK? The Lord is close to the brokenhearted. BF:hug:

Koala - :hug: - God bless you. I know where you're coming from and understand what you're saying.

Koala77. Are you feeling better? I hope so. BF

Thank you BF but tonight has brought new traumas for me again. It's evening here in Australia as I write this, and once again my sister has me distressed.

I have just heard that she is in hospital suffering from a deep depression, but the person who told me has broken a trust in telling me about it. She was told under no circumstancs was I to be informed that my sister was sick, let alone in hospital, and I've been sworn to secrecy.

My sister wants nothing to do with me, and I'm at a loss to know why. We spoke on the telephone last week, and we didn't quarrell or have cross words of any kind. As far as I can work out my sister wants nothing to do with me, and I'd have thought that if she was ever going to need me by her side, then this is the time when she really needs me most.

I do love her very much, but it seems that no matter what I do, it never seems to be the right thing.

I'm fast giving up hope of ever having a "normal" relationship with my sister again.

:hug: honey, just send her a card. don't mention that you know are make it too specific. maybe just one of encouragement and mention how nice it was to talk to her. it's baby step that might just breaking away the chip she has on her shoulder.

i have no relationship with my sisters. zip zilch none.