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Old 03-13-2008, 04:53 AM #1
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Default I hurt so bad

She's done it again!

I only have the one sister, but time after time she hurts me.

I've sobbed my heart out tonight ..... yet again. Every time I thought I didn't have another tear left, a whole new batch just streams down my face.

My head aches. My eyes are sore. Will this pain ever end?
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Oh, Anne as a sister, I understand your pain far too well. I'm so sorry that you are hurting and I will not attempt to talk you out of it. It always seems like those nearest our hearts are best able to break them.
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Hello dear Anne~ I feel so bad for you. Seems like your feeings just keep getting hurt and that saddens me.. Has your Sis gone back home from her DD's yet??

Don't think it is you, b/c it isn't. I hope one day SOON she will wake up and see what she is missing in not having you in her life on a regular basis. It is her loss, but I know how much you wish she would "wake up and smell the coffee".

I have a great Sis, Anne~~ but by golly, I wish I was yours too!

No more tears Anne..... Smile right now.. Don't make me do something really DM'ish to make you smile..

I care alot about you....... take care my Aussie friend.
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I'm sorry Anne that you are hurting right now. It always seems the people closest to you hurt you the most.

I too hope she wakes up one day and realizes that life is too short and family is so very important.

Take care of yourself. I will be thinking of you
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I'm sorry to hear that you have a sister who hurts you also. My sister hurts me very deeply. I don't know why this happens to some of us. I just know that it happens. I'm sorry that it has happened to you. I understand. Brokenfriend
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...... I understand. Brokenfriend
Thank you so much BF. It means so much to me to have my "friends" here on the site support me as much as they do. I've never had support from my family, not ever. By family I mean the one I was born into. My DH, my DD and my 2 DSS are all loving and supportive towards me, but I wonder sometimes why my sister seems to make it her life's ambition to hurt me as often and as badly as she possibly can.

I am the only sister she has. Our parents both died nearly 30 years ago, and our older brother died last month, but still she never stops. I know it's a "Power" thing because she is a controlling type of person, but it doesn't ease my pain just knowing what she's like.

There will come a day, and probably soon, where I say that I no longer have a sister and I cut all contact with her. There's only so much pain one person can take.
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