Thanks everyone for welcoming me so warmly and for the replies Kitty: I have been to about 6 docs including a neuro and rhemotologist and no one seems to be able to find out whats wrong. I had an MRI with and without contrast which came back clear with no lesions and the nerve conduction tests etc. I havent had a spinal yet but im being refered to another neuro to maybe find some answers. Im not sure when I can rule out MS as being a possible cause. Its difficult because so many symptoms seem to come and go (although some stay) that its hard to talk to a doc without them looking at you like your a loon lol the first question almost every doc ive seen started by asking me what stressful situation happened when this started so im sure theyd love to chalk it up to stress and believe me i would too but i dont think its that simple Hopefully i can find an answer but its nice to be around such kind people, thanks again for your inputs