It's a difficult transition that's for sure.

We all handle this differently. Some never accept the reality of it.

For me, personally, my faith plays a huge (well, the only) part in it.

I think we all ask the question "why me?". It's just human nature. But why not ask "why not me?". I look at it as this is exactly where I am meant to be. There is a reason for all of this. I might not know what that reason is right now.....might not know it in my lifetime.....but I accept that. I don't question it but strive to learn from it and recognize the opportunities to help others get through it.

Yes, it can be tough at times. Lots of times! For me personally, there have been things to happen in my life that are worse than MS. It's just another bump in the road. There are times I get discouraged but never for long.

I'm at peace with this. I can't explain it in just a few paragraphs. It's something that has to come from within. And I pray daily that everyone can have it.

Kitty - I love your answer.

Dejibo, I am so sorry that you are faced with this new 'reality of you; I can't dispense wise words, or even 'know' what you are going through - but I hear you and I wish I could help.

Hugs

Lyn

Dej,

I'm sorry you are having a rough time. I know how you feel. I too live away from my family but I don't have a husband. Being single is miserable by itself and add MS to it. Well actually dating. Who wants to date a chick with a cane and is tired before the date even starts. I self isolate because most people don't understand. I don't blame you for not wanting to pay $100 an hour to someone and you don't see a benefit. I don't really have any advice but do what you are comfortable with and what makes you happy. I hope you find something or something finds you to chase the blues away.

MG