With the family history, the wait and see, I feel with just a biopsy, won't do, if you follow?

I would imagine they do put you on HRT, right after. I'll let you know, on Tuesday, the final plans.

The hyst is at my doctors recommendation.

My doctors' office, called this afternoon. As suspected, the CA-125 came back, negative. Which is decent news to have. Means I have no inflamed cancer going on in my ovaries.

My doctor, doesn't like this one, because it cannot detect growths like mine, alone, without the ultra sound.

I am going to create my own blog on this topic of discussion. I've connected with two women on another site, that have had borderline cancers removed. Finding survivors, is daunting, but they are out there.

An ounce of prevention can go a long way. I'm developing quite an opinion on womens health, more than I ever have. As I, am personally, traversing these major female gynecological decisions. And I am forming a strong opinion on insurance coverage on the little things, that could be better watched over.

Taken me a while, to try and see, what 'lesson'/'message' was to be taken from losing my mom.....I may be closer to seeing the bigger picture here.

I sincerely hope and pray this is nothing. I would get the surgery as well. You have thought things though very well, and it is good to be educated about all of it. So sorry you have another worry. I will keep you in my prayers. ginnie

Oh dear! I just teared up reading your post. I am so sorry you have to now go through this. You have been through so much over the past few years (well, at least the years I have "known" you.). I am glad you are being proactive about this. I think a hysterectomy is a good idea and a direction I would take if I were in your situation. You sound as if you have done your research and know the risks and benefits. The experience and knowledge you gained while your mom was ill is also helpful and beneficial in deciding what course you want to take. Of note, my sister just had a total hysterectomy. She has done well and so far has not needed any HRT, which she can't take anyhow due to the breast cancer she had. Please keep us posted on how you are doing and what you decide to do. I will keep you in my prayers.

Gladys-

Sounds to me like you have made a decision, but need 'permission/confirmation'. You know know your thoughts and feelings better than anyone else. Only you can know what is the right way to proceed - and that is what makes it the "right thing to do".

It doesn't really matter what any of us thinks you should do - we don't have your body, your history and your family to think about; you do. Trust your heart and your docs and the answer will be clear. I hope this in some small helps

{{{hugs}}}

No matter what - we are here for you and don't plan on going anywhere

I had a hyst when I was 38. Everything gone but my left ovary. Doc didn't want me going thru total menopause, oh no, so I just get to go thru it twice! Thanks Doc!! Should've send her a card, but I couldn't quite get the wording civil! LOL It was for the best in my case, and I do hope it benefits you in your case. Keeping you in my prayers!

Women experience menopause in different ways. I had a hysterectomy at 41 but had one ovary left. When I finally went through menopause it was "nothing" that I could detect as different from everything I had lived through since the age of 17. In other words, I still had neurological symptoms but I did not have hot flashes at all. Nothing changed. The doctors misinterpreted my neuro symptoms as menopause, however, and put me on wild yam cream for hormones. I did this wild yam thing four different times, and each time reacted so badly (spasticity) within four days that I was off the yam. I later was shown to have Porphyria, which means those kind of hormones are not acceptable, so that later explained it. However, my point here is that, for me, menopause did not change me. I still had episodes of imbalance and other neuro problems, and spasticity, but no hot flashes, and I was no more temperamental than usual. But I suppose I've always been temperamental, so that does not mean much.

I would run not walk to the OR in your case. Best wishes for a great outcome.

UPDATE:

Well, then.

Had my second ultra sound yesterday. Had a nice conversation with the u/s technician. She told me, that she didn't find anything unusual 2 weeks ago. She even, in front of my showed me everything she typed up today on her report.

She brought up both series and compared and contrasted for me, my right ovary from 2 weeks ago, to today. Today, there's nothing there.

You see, the little 'growth' she showed me, well, that shows up in some women every month, and it alternates sides. So next month, most likely, in two weeks, I will have something like that on my left ovary.

If you'd like artistic expression, think of it like that was the point of release for my egg to head off to my fallopian tube. Us, women, we sure do have something special going on inside of us, don't we?

By the time, my doctor came into the exam room, just for a discussion, this time. My ultra sounds were beautiful. And wow, there's nothing there now. So, I can just wait until next year, for another ultra sound with my annual exam. No mention of what my intentions were for having more kids.

I was offered to take the BRCA test. Wow, who knew, it's not a blood test? And it can be done, in office, to be sent off to a laboratory? Just make sure you've had nothing to eat or drink for at least 30 minutes to an hour prior. Considering I'd been in that office from 145pm and it was now 315pm, that really wasn't an issue.

You take a small travel sized bottle of Scope, two little cups, that you fill up with the mouthwash. And then there is this big sealed tube. Swish for at least 30 seconds and spit it into the tube, repeat and just make sure that you fill the vile to the #20. Which is precisely two of those little cups, provided you spit it out with precision, which for me, no problem.

Yes, it will tap into your deductible, but like anything, you can make monthly payment arrangements. Even if you had to pay the full amount, hey, the price of knowing your risk factor for developing breast or ovarian cancer, 3K, spaced out with good faith payments could give even those on tighter budgets peace of mind.

I cannot believe, all that I needed to consider, etc, over the past two weeks! I have certainly learned a lot!

I would have preferred, that two weeks ago, he didn't mention cancer, that he just said there's a growth, and it could be just the cyst or the techs photography skills and let's see. Hey, even look at date of last period and calculate, that I could have very well been ovulating. And, had today, there'd been something, then ask me, my intentions for more children.

Yes, it's good news, and a relief, in that regards! But for a woman who has an anxiety disorder and is prone to heart palpitations, can't wait to tell this one to my pdoc, who needed to prescribe me Xanax through a phone consult, when I see him next week.

After all, I was under the impression, especially after talking to him on the phone, 4 days after that first u/s, that I was going to be bracing myself for a preventative measure and educating myself on what hysterectomies are all about. I worried about the children that I have, and grieved for the one(s) I would never have the chance of having.

My ex and I were talking about that final aspect today. He went with the V because the thought tying my tubes, I had said, years ago with him, that I didn't want to live with that regret. SO, yeah, this was a lot for me to deal with emotionally as far as a hysterectomy.

I cannot express enough the appreciation I feel, over all of you 'being there' for me, through this.

And I am also relieved, to not have to worry about what this would do to my MS, right now!

Just wanted to add something a little lighter to all of this, about my experience...


Imagine that, in my medical files, now, there is a photograph/of the ultra-sound variety, of me ovulating!!

The egg being pushed through the door of my ovary, into my fallopian tube!!

How cool is that, really when you stop and think about it?!!

There's a moment of Ovulation in my Medical Records!!