Sally, I haven't been in your situation, so I don't know what to say... but is there some kind of organization, club, group, you could get involved with?

Attend programs at a local library? Libraries often have lots of free stuff, free classes, workshops, etc. Ours has service for homebound patrons, too. Audiobooks, large-print books, bookmobile, etc.

Can you get transportation through a LIFT program (not sure if that's the name everywhere)?

And remember, art saves lives... I used to think that was an odd bumper-sticker slogan, but really it's the truth (interpreting "art" broadly).

Hope you feel better soon... routine can be a drag, so see if you can put something new and positive on your horizon.

Nancy T.

Sorry you are so down Sally. You are usually so upbeat, but we can't be rays of sunshine everyday. Pain is exhausting.

Becoming more housebound is frustrating. Even when you want to go out it takes too much energy.

And we aren't getting any younger....

Hope you can find the right AD and become a happy camper again.

Hey Sally, I just thought of a thing that I get a kick out of, I've been writing to soldiers and sailors who don't get any other mail since 1989 when the desert thing really got started. Nowadays, there is a much more guarded system, but they do still really appreciate letters.

I don't send packages because it's a little more physical than I want it to be, but the kids seem to get a bang out of my letters which tend to be a little on the smart allecky side. Some write back, some email, and others I never hear from. But it's neat to get a note from someone telling me that his/her entire unit read and loved my letter. I include some plain paper photos incorporated into the letter. They really dig seeing green foliage from home.

There are lots of helpful websites to help get you started, just google "any soldier" and read up on the protocol. It's rather uplifting.

What a terrific idea, Cindy!! I'm going to look into that, and do it. My StepSon is in Iraq, right now as a civilian worker and his SO is there, in the Army.

I do communiate with them and worry about them. If Dawn is not held there longer, they should be out of there August or Sept. and back in Hawaii, where Dawn is stationed.

I do need a hobby too. Just trying to think of something I can and want to do.

Right now, the laundry is calling me ..see ya later.

Sally
My laundry has been calling, but I'm not taking calls, yet.

I understand the need for a hobby. I don't have any family here, so all holidays are a real downer. Poor me. My SO doesn't believe or acknowledge any holidays even b-days. Makes me lonely for the arguing of family togetherness.

After that brief pity party, back to hobby. I started crocheting. The first year out here I made gifts for my nieces/nephews fo xmas. My plan was to make a poncho for me. Have I done that yet ... NO. I belong to an online group that makes squares for/or blankets for cancer victims. Very fulfilling.

My hand pain has increased and haven't been able to crochet for nearly 2 months. The group is very understanding. I spend alot of time doing Sudoku puzzles. Get the books from the dollar store. I find it calming and takes my mind off the pain (except holding the pencil) like no med can. Very helpful when the roids are raging too.

Long story short. I feel for you and appreciate all your upbeat posts.
Beth