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Hi Erin
Sorry to be late in on this but it sounds like your dad is in good hands and has great medical care. I hope it all turns out ok and you need to breathe!!! Relax and know that he is being taken care of! Hugs to you. It sounds like the same stuff my mom has. At least your dad is taking care of himself. |
Hi Erin,
I'm sorry about your Dad's health problems, it sounds scary but you've had some great advice from AMN and others here. I hope it turns out to be something minor and manageable, I'll keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. |
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Take good care of yourself, Chris |
Keeping your Dad in my prayers, Erin. Sounds like he's got a pretty special daughter..
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But, apparently, it's not going to be good news. We went thru this about 15yrs ago with my uncle (dad's little brother). In very similar circumstances. My uncle had a bad cough, it wasnt getting any better. My aunt and his coworkers tricked him into going to the hospital to get checked out (my aunt was a cardiac care nurse at the time) and he only had 15% of his heart capacity (I'd been thinking he had 50%, found out today it was 15%) So, my dad went in to get his echo. The people doing the echo had concerned looks on their faces. They actually called the doctor down to evaluate if they should even let him go home. Apparently my dad has only 20% of his heart capacity! Better than my uncle's 15%, but still not a good sign. 15 years ago, when my uncle got diagnosed with whatever this is called, my aunt told me that my uncle only had a 5year survival rate. I'm really hoping that they've done some good advances in past 15yrs for whatever is causing my dad's problem, because my uncle died within a year and a half to 2yrs after he was diagnosed. My dad hasnt gotten an official diagnosis for whatever this is (which is why I'm calling it "whatever") My dad is hoping that they'll let him continue working if he goes down to part time. This is going to suck, I know my uncle's medical bills were astronomical, I dont know how my dad will be able to pay for my mom's medical stuff, his medical stuff and my medical stuff together, and pay off the house and all the assorted junk that we've bought and are still paying for. This is just what we did not need. Especially since my dad has always been scared that he'd die at the same age as his dad and brother did. (they both died at 54) My dad has at least gotten past that age (he's 68 now) But, I dont think he wants to die the same way his brother did. Tomorrow is my one year anniversary of being diagnosed with MS. I guess it's only fitting that any other bad medical stuff would happen this week too. Now I can hate the entire week and not just tomorrow's date. |
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Go onto WebMD and look up Ejection Fraction Rates. I think you'll find that there is a lot of information on there that isn't as bad as you believe it to be. If you have any questions, I would be more than happy to answer them, but it sounds like you have plenty of medical and nursing personnel in your family. I'm sorry tomorrow is your anniversary of the day you were diagnosed. Many of us have been diagnosed for years, and although it's not what we have wanted from our lives, we're still here to talk about it, laugh about it, and yes even scream about it. Get a good night's rest, and take care of YOU!!! I shall keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.:hug: All the best, Chris |
Good thing my aunt is a cardiac nurse
My aunt just called my dad and warned him (didnt scare him) about what's probably going to happen.
She first, told my dad that he's a lot better off than my uncle was with his heart problem. First off, my dad thought my uncle's Ejection Fraction Rate was 15%, it wasnt. It was anywhere from 6% to 8%! (and he was still working when it was that low!) So, my dad's much better off than my uncle was...and my aunt said they've done a lot of research and have had some advances in treating this stuff since 1995. She think's if they get it managed correctly that he should be ok for a good bit. She told my dad that the cardiologist is probably going to send him to one of the local heart failure clinics in town (every hospital here has one) and that they'll check him out regularly and adjust medications when it's needed and that there's a lot of good treatments for this. (hey, at least he doesnt have to worry about the possibility of suddenly going blind from ON, or losing the ability to walk or something because a couple of neurons blew a gasket...) When my uncle got sick, he'd lost so much of his heart that they'd put him on the transplant list. My aunt said she thought that if he got on whatever treatment they do for this, he should do pretty good. He's in a lot better physical shape than my uncle ever was. |
Erin
I'm just getting here. It sounds like your Dad is in good hands. Please continue to take care of yourself too. I want you to know you and your family are in my thoughts. :hug: |
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I'm not letting my dad do anything more strenuous than walking around a Best Buy or signing a credit card slip. |
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