My dad called a bit ago from his work (he works in a hospital, he's a nurse anesthetist)

Seems that he was not looking good to his co-workers, and they sent him to the ER. Turns out he's throwing PVC's (irregular heart rythyms) and he was diaphoretic (sweating).

He called back a little bit ago, looking for his doctor's phone number, and I asked what was going on, and he told me apparently his heart is enlarged.

I looked some of this stuff up on Google. (I know, bad to diagnose by Google) but I'm guessing he's got some sort of congestive heart failure. PVC's by themselves arent usually dangerous, but sometimes they're a sign of underlying heart problems.

My dad has been getting really tired and breathless from walking from the surgery area of the hospital down to his car in the evenings. (it's a looong walk) but he hasnt been that concerned about it. I am now. Breathlessness is a sign of congestive heart failure. He's had a really bad cough lately too.

He got a cold just before I did, and like mine, it turned into bronchitis. His cough has lasted a lot longer than mine tho.

This is a bit familar of a situation too. About 15yrs ago, my uncle got sick with a cold, which turned into bronchitis. His co-workers and my aunt tricked my uncle into seeing a doctor (told him they were going shopping, but ended up taking him to the hospital where his co-workers escorted him into the ER to see the doctor)

My uncle had the same symptoms as my dad, and it turned out he had a viral infection that damaged 50% (or more) of his heart muscle. He was on the transplant list, waiting for a heart, when his viral infection reactivated and went for his pancreas. He died of pancreatitis while waiting for the transplant.

I'm all freaked out. My dad said not to come up to the ER, my boyfriend is telling me to ignore my dad and take my mom up there. I'm not sure what to do. I dont know if they're going to keep my dad in the hospital or not. I'm about to have a nervous breakdown from this.


Sorry if this post was long winded, but, I felt the need to post about it.

First, breathe, it is not in your power to fix or change the situation. Second, think.

It's okay to write it here, Erin, this is what we do. If I were in your situation, I'd call my mom and see what she thinks is best. I suspect she'd appreciate you taking her there because I'm sure they won't let your dad drive home and at the very least, you could help her pick up his car after you see him and know more.

Just what'd I'd do, sweetie, it's really up to you. Keep us posted, okay?

he is in good hands erin.

deep breath. relax.

amn gave you good advice.

Oh, Erin, how scary. Curious is right, he is in good hands. Try to stay calm and let us know how it goes.

Sending Prayers and Hugs.

Erin take AMN advice. I was in a similiar situation once.

I know it is easier to say keep calm then to do it, but that is what you have to do.




Keep us advised on your father's condition.





Joyce

Hi Erin~~ Ditto to what the others' said. Your Dad sounds like how my Mom was; never wanted to worry anyone or put anyone out. I think you should check it out and go there. Otherwise, your'e going to sit and stew.

I am soooo speaking from experience. take care and let us know how your Dad is.