[HSPCraig]

[QUOTE=FlyFishin Momma;Craig....even if her dhs name was on the release info to list....SHE WAS SITTING RIGHT THERE. He should have discussed with her in a more professional way his thoughts and concerns...not going to her dh like she was a nut case and couldnt be told that....

I say again ...O-M-G!

Keep us posted and if ya ever need to talk....you know how to find me lol....[/QUOTE]

You are so right about this. Heck! She WAS sitting right there and SHE is the patient. What did the neuro think, DH "wasn't" going to discuss this conversation with her?

Give me a brake!

[Kitty]

How old is this doctor? What he did sounds like something my grandfather would do! **Let's not upset the little lady - we men will just discuss her "fragile condition" behind her back and she'll be none the wiser.** Give me a break! What would he have done if you didn't have a husband - or one that went with you to the appointments? Did he honestly not think that Tim would NOT have mentioned this to you? Good grief - with doctors like this we certainly DO need anxiety meds!

Before my next appointment with this baboon I would make a list of questions and put him on the spot - ask him point blank what he was thinking when he "slipped the note" to your hubby. Or better yet - have Tim ask him and let the doc know that you didn't appreciate the breach of trust.

Or. . . . . .just let all of us know when and where your next appointment is and we'll all meet you there and give him a piece of our mind (s) - collectively I bet we have at least one complete mind to work with!!

[Jodylee]

Thank you EVERYBODY!!!

I was thinking I was a crazy bi#$% for a little while. Well, I might just be a little crazy, LOL.

Craig- When I went to the er I told them that I had MS and that my doctor sent me in. I told them his name. They didn't call him.

I think when you go to the hospital and tell them that you have MS they automatically assume whatever problem you are having is related to the disease.

I'm debating about whether to send my doctor a letter or wait until I can formally direct my ire at him in person.

I think if I send him a letter and wait to see him for a response, he may have a little too much time to come up with some convoluted excuse for his and his staff's behavior. I won't allow that to happen.

I am a rather level-headed person and can usually come up with a way to express myself without sounding like a raving lunatic. I will make him feel like the aZZhoal that he is. I can stick it to him with a big smile on my face. I am feeling a sort of cold and calculating type of rage right now. It is probably misdirected somewhat because of all of the other things going on in my life. (It's a very good thing that I won't see him until next month.)

Pardon my language, btw. You really wouldn't want to hear me in person right now.

After I see his reaction, I will decide how to proceed.

Hugs to all, and thanks again for the support. I am sorry for being so needy lately. LOL.