we are going through this right now with my eldest son and his fiance and her family, and their upcoming wedding, they dont understand why i cant stay longer or why the heat from cooking all day at their place is too much for me ect.... ect.... I actually texted him this morning and told him to do me a favor and look at what MS is and get his head out of the sand, well the word i used rhymes with glass, only thing i can figure is he is in denial, my so called friends dropped me like i had AID's ages ago when I was DX'ed, so that showed me how much they were my friends, as for feeling guilty i dont anymore, they can all, as you so poetically put it

BITE ME