I know the feeling
 

I was told i had MS last year and after all of my friends and family got use to it i got preg. Every time i talk to one of them they ask me how i am going to raise the baby with MS. I just tell them that i will do the best that i can on my own. Then if/when something happens that will make it impossible to care for my child then and only then will i ask for help. Some say they want to help me do this and that but i just feel like telling them that i dont want there help i dont need it.