Oh sweetie! what a mess. I have been in a few of those places myself, and have gotten out of an ICU bed, and GONE HOME! its so scary when you are so ill, and unable to protect yourself, and a loved one who comes to guard you (yes, you need a full time guard in the hospital) doesnt have enough information to make informed decisions. Can you appoint someone else as your health care proxy? A sis? a friend? a neighbor? Or is your hubby willing to take on more? Its alot to ask of anyone, but when so drugged, sick, and picked over, its almost impossible to take care of yourself. you are at their mercy.

I hope you are able to rest now, and recoup at home. I would have some strong words for the neuro that left you to fend for yourself. Woo!