Welcome to NeuroTalk....

It can be so difficult to get a proper diagnosis!

This is a link to a test, that may help you:
http://www.rdos.net/eng/Aspie-quiz.php
If you take this test, answer quickly the first impression you have, DO NOT mull over the questions. A spontaneous response it the most accurate.

Toe walking is a definite sign of being on the Autism spectrum.
But it is not a conclusive sign.

A personality disorder, is not the same thing as "being crazy".
In fact personality disorders are not considered pathology.
Severe ones can become diagnostic entities however.

There is an excellent book written about this by Dr. Oldham. It is fascinating to read, and has a huge self test, that is pretty accurate.
His test is now online for anyone to try:
http://www.personalityonline.com/tes....html?testid=3

This book of his is just fascinating. It is written in a style anyone can understand, and has helpful tips on how to get along with various types of people. I guarantee you will find it helpful, and I myself, go back to it still now and then for a refresher! And it is not expensive either. I'd recommend reading it FIRST before taking the personality test I linked above. The same test is in the book as well.

http://search.barnesandnoble.com/The...am+personality

If you decide to find another therapist, I'd make sure you find one with experience with Asperger's, and high functioning autism, and that way you may have a better experience and get a more accurate assessment.

Best wishes to you.