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12-12-2007, 06:17 AM | #21 | |||
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You have a lot of experience and fightingspirit , this blind belief ,- it was like an arrow.
I have to collect new passions in life, may be I will be a bit different, will not be embarrassed ,ashamed , saying good bye to the duties that I no longer can cope with.May be people will think I am strange, but I know that I will be more happy, enjoy my new passons. We have to have passions and - let go , LET IT BE - MOTHER MERY SAID TO ME, ect. |
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12-13-2007, 07:03 AM | #22 | ||
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I am still doing a bit of consulting work but half heartedly ... money rather than work passion .. I really lost interest .. I feel there are more important things for me.. I even value my Tai chi exercise more.. Ofcourse there are practical matters to attend to like financial security ,, but if we talk of passions .. I just think that they have changed not vanished ..I believe I still have the passion to exist ! get well .. even enjoy my solitude and other eccentricities with a good sociably accepted execuse of illeness .. be sociable and loving when I choose .. and there are still wonderful music .. stillness.. thoughts .. love .. etc. etc. the list never ends.. So please try to be positive .. at least PD gave us the execuse to be !
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12-14-2007, 12:03 AM | #23 | ||
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I actually had goose pimples from the shear joy and beauty in the music. Sublime is all I can say. John |
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12-14-2007, 01:42 AM | #24 | |||
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imark: Thank you for your kindness. I'm at a low point right now. I'm not used to not being able to rely on my brain. I've won national awards for some of my programs. I was named the outstanding faculty member of the year in 1999. But today, one of the new programmers showed me some new features to the latest release of our database engine. It sounded interesting so I said I would read about it. By the time I had returned to my office to pull up the documentation, I had completely forgotten what it was called. Then I feel so stupid having to go back and ask him again. He's a considerate young person and doesn't do anything to make me feel bad. I guess I'm quite able to do that all by myself.
You're quite right though... passions don't go away, they just change. Perhaps that might be true even without PD, as life tends to be a long series of changes. But things change slowly in the normal aging process. This PD has sped up the changes considerably. For me, simply living the life I have, as well as I can, as long as I can, has become much more important than those professional aspirations that once dominated my life. The adjustments have been difficult. Also, my symptoms have been getting worse at what seems to be a more rapid rate during that past few months. It's a lot to deal with. Most of you already know it, I'm sure. For me, though, this is all pretty new. |
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12-14-2007, 06:54 AM | #25 | ||
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Dear Ibsen: I know the joy of programming ... the pride of achievement that comes with it .. and the annoyment of being hampered by stupid failings of memory while intelligence and logic is fully intact..
You are going through the painful adjustment period ..but I feel 100% sure you will comfortably adjust because intelligent poeple usually do ..they have the resources for that .. good luck .. Last edited by imark3000; 12-14-2007 at 09:25 AM. Reason: spelling |
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