What you have to consider is: IF the things that are happening to you now are due to what all you have or something 'new' [not that one WANTS that-ever!] and then, consider what all, where how you are living and doing things now that are different from before?
Obviously there must be some benefits...as well as tradeoffs. Only you can decide which aspects are worth it or not. No ONE here can decide for you. We can only provide input based on our experiences, which may or not relate in any ways to your own. Do keep that in mind in all our your decisions.... Getting information and processing that information, the sources, quality and legitimacy of any informations/inputs are crucial given the vulnerable situation you have been in and your need to heal and progress into something better.
I have often thought about 'moving South' from where I live? Because it can be brutally cold here and my own neuropathy[ies] leave me 90%of the time truly freezing in the hands and feet. I do re-think things tho? In that More South from here, the summers are far, far more HOT! It is all a trade off? How you deal with it, too dry, too moist, too moldy too whatever...well, that's one aspect of moving somewhere where...you need someone THERE to give you those clues! I wish I could help you, but, I'm on the other Coast!
If you've any questions, please don't hesitate to PM me...I'll see IF I can find some info that's useful...Can't guarantee it tho. Maybe others will help!
Truly !!!!'s - j

Hi. Thanks I know everyone cares and did not mean to start a fight. Truly I like Ca and its not going home cause I am homesick but am at a loss with the eyes and how dry I am all over. The dry all over does not bother me it is the eyes. They are scary bad. I have been to 14 or so eye apts. Anyhow who knows it may be the same if I go back to Mi. If I did go back to Mi I would not stay next winter unlesss my pain is much better. If npt then try Fl possibly though I was thinking before to go now but don't feel like starting new again. I have done nothing different here in Ca that is the problem. I have looked at everything in my life and nothing has changed to make this happen. I hate the cold too. I agree there is no perfect place. Just could never imagine eyes could be so painful.I am able to do for myself but am very limited unable to work or go to school. It is hard being away on one hand though dealing with this on my own of coure my mom is by phone or if I needed something in person .I agree no one can decide and was just looking for opinions and have to accept any response I get cause this is an open forum. Ok thank you and I will keep you updated.

even for a visit...

Check out these doctors:
http://www.michigancornea.com/dr_dunn.htm

We have had the best, most excellent results with both of these
doctors. They are also the ones who diagnosed the fungal corneal
infection of the patient I told you about earlier.

My son has a congenital damage to one eye ( and Dr. Dunn was the only
doctor to explain it to us accurately)... I can't recommend them enough.
(I don't know Dr. Chow, personally, but I know Dr. Dunn and
Heidemann.)

You know how to pick them,I was in a car accident with my husband,
and my left eye well it was hard to open and I could not shut it without
great pain..My husband asked his Brother where we should go he recommed
Dr. Dunn turned out I had a tiny bit of glass still in the eye that was
in or across the Corneal,it was not hard to get out and he got a tiny
pieace out of my ear..He;s kind explained how tiny pieces can stay in and on
your bodies for many years,he was very gentle,and I was very scared.
Sue

Thank you so so much. If I go back which has changed 20 times today in my choice cause I am so confused I will for sure contact that doc. I wish I could know if the eye would get better ? about humidifier what is a good level to keep your place at?Thanks