Oldest son mentioned numbness
 

My oldest son was here today. He just "casually" mentioned he is having numbness in one toe and one finger.

I know, I know, chill! But the mom in me said a silent prayer. Then I told him to just kind of keep track of anything else that might be going on.

I remember after my dx thinking back at my "weird" happenings through the years.

He does fight depression and "tiredness", too.

Oh Crap, Brenda. I hate this disease :mad:

Your son will be in my prayers :hug:

My Dad had MS, as do I. Every time one of my adult kids mentions ANY kind of "weird" thing going on, my blood freezes solid and my heart comes right up in my throat.

My daughter asked me the other day, "MS isn't hereditary, is it?" Well, no, not per se. I told her the truth, that statistics seem to indicate that having a parent with MS does increase the odds somewhat.

She has mentioned a few things. I want her to take it seriously, but I don't want her to panic. That's my job.

I know this feeling well.
My daughter has always been lively and full of energy and the picture of health.

My son, has always been less blessed but still generally healthy - he had asthma and horrible allergies as a child and was sick a lot but the normal childhood things.

He is now almost 30 and gets around like a much older man in spite of the fact that he is a good weight and fit. He hurts all over, all the time and you can tell he just doesn't feel well. He talks to me about how bad he feels and he does follow up with doctors but he continues to ache more every year. Like Blessings - I want him to stay on top of things but don't want to scare him either. He just seems to be me all over again in terms of how his health is progressing though.... I just wish I could take all his aches and pains for him - fortunately - he has not, so far, mentioned any numbness anywhere.

Sassy, I know exactly what you're going through. My youngest son, just 20, called me from work yesterday and asked me to make an appointment for him at the doctor. He said he was having numbness in the side of his face and he said he's having major problems with word recall and concentration. He said he wants to make sure he doesn't have the same thing I do. He's got an appointment April 4th.

He also dropped his coffee cup yesterday morning (in his bedroom!) and showed me last night. I saw him coming out of his room with the carpet cleaner and I asked what happened. That's when he told me that his hand just "went wacky" and he dropped the cup.

I'm trying not to think the worst but how can we NOT when we know what we go through each and every day.

I pray that your son and my son, too, do not have MS. I would rather mine get worse than have one of my children go through this.

I'd just soon be alone in this, I hate to see you other guys having the same worries. Our children will always be our babies no matter what.

My sister brought up another thought too. Diabetes type 2 runs in our family and he has been losing weight lately. She's bringing her glycometer over later and we'll check that out when he's over again. I'm thinking no on that but never know. He has been to the doctors quite a bit lately so you would think that has been checked there or in the hospital when he was there last month.

My prayers go out for the other parents here with worries about their children.

My prayers go to you all. :hug:

((((((SassY)))))) I hate this disease:mad:

My young son is going through alot of symptoms and it scares the carp out of me:eek:

You know my prayers are with you and your son!!! Hopefully its just a fluke.

If you need anything, shoulder, ear, etc Call me!!!! For you I am available 24/7,:hug:

I know too well how scared we get when one of our children displays sx's of one sort or another. I go into panic mode.

I hope your DS's both (Kell and Sass) DO NOT have anything serious.. Hang in there and keep us posted. :grouphug: