awww sweety, just know we are here for you. have you lifted in prayer.

Jose covered most of what i was going to say.{thanks Jose!}

I wanted to know the brand of those tires so I don't buy that kind.
My yokohamas have been on since fall of 03 and about 50,000 miles so far. I went to Big O one time years ago - never again!


Ada, I think you are still grieving too and that is totally normal.
Most grief/loss articles say to avoid major changes for the first year after a loss of a loved one. But sometimes the need arises and you have to do things.

But if anything isn't really needing to be done right now - just take a break from all of it that isn't on the "must do" list.
You are probably very fatigued and stressed out - take a few days or a week to really relax and get rested.
Are you taking a multivitamin and a B stress complex?
Hugs to you--

Extra-special thoughts and Prayers for you, Ada...

Most Fondly,

Brokenwings

We are here for you Ada

Hello Ada: Years ago I came home from work and the house was a mess, dirty dishes in the sink, laundry piled up, etc. I was stressed out from long hours at work and had no energy to deal with it.

After assessing the situation, I told my son to pack some clothes and get in the car. We spent the weekend whitewater rafting. The mess was still there when we returned home, but I felt better mentally. Sometimes you just have to get away from whatever is bothering you and just relax.

Try going outside and looking at the night sky. When you consider how vast the universe is and how small our planet is, then how small we ourselves are compared to the earth, then our problems seem very small indeed.

I am not suggesting that your problems are small, only that sometimes we worry too much. A hundred years from now, no one will care if you had boxes in your living room, a messy house, or slimey lettuce in your refrigerator. Just do what you can, and forget about the rest. You may be afraid because you have to make decisions on your own now, but I can tell from your posts that you are much stronger than you believe. Just take one step at a time and it will all work out. Regards, Lil