Thanks everyone! I have unfortunately shown him the McGill pain scale, Had him look at RSDhope, all sorts things. I think he just really doesn't get it. He figures he can deal with pain, so why cant I? Arrg. Also I was actually more mad when he insisted in playing vide games until 230am in the bedroom where the good tv is, I cant sleep easy on our couch. So I finally made ho get off and told him I was mad. He said " why couldn't u just nap on the couch till I was done".... IO seriously don't know why hes been so self-centered lately.....


It is really helpful to have you all understand...at least someone gets it

I'm kind of going through the same thing. I just had surgery Wednesday and I feel like I'm sitting here flailing. It's annoying and it just makes me more depressed. I just want to bury my head in the covers and never come out. If you, or anyone ever want to talk, just message me.

TK

I'm sorry you are going through this. This disease is not fair to our families and I'm sure it is frustrating to have the division of labour shift like that. But it doesn't seem like the division of labour was very fair before and that was by choice, whereas you can't help having the limitations you have.