So before the RSD started, I took care of the house. Usually 9 times out of 10 I would come home cook diner for the family do the dishes, clean whatever would need to be done. Me and my fiance worked at the same place held the same title and hours.So we both would have worked all day. While I as doing the cooking and cleaning my fiance would go into the bedroom or living room and play an online war video game. Sometimes He wouldnt even stop playing and I would bring him dinner. A lot of times really.

Well the RSD in my entire left arm made that very difficult, if not impossible most times. Now I have a different ob and work much after I dont gt off until 8 pm and because of the drive time I get home around 9pm.

So now he is responsible for cooking dinner, doing the dishes and making sure the younger kid bathes and what not. Well from my previous post last night you can see I ripped off half my fingernail. Which of course i flaring up my arm now. So we had bought a bunch of paper plates to help out on the level of dishes (sorry trees we do use the recycled ones though). So last night I didnt really eat much just hi and the kids I made a sandwich, on a paper plate. Now hes angry because I didnt want to do what very little dishes there were because of my arm and finger!

For almost 5yrs I was the one who did all the work while he played a stupid damn game. I am so angry, I usually am very easy going but this really ****** me off. I know a "tit-or-tat" isn't helpful but I mentioned that I had done exactly what he does now for 5 yrs, so I understand how he feels.....he just got more angry and said fine I'll take care of it. Not copping to that fact that he barely had to do anything like that for the Past 5yrs!

ANd the weird thing he when we moved in together he was wonderful at helping around the house, infact he was neater than I was!

Was is just complacency that lulled him into this lazy pattern or is he jusr being an ***?