So last week my husbands oldest son (23) text me, says he and his girlfriend are coming over sometime on the 24th. I asked do I need to cook. No, having dinner with Family. oh! ok!
Went ahead and made plans to work 1/2 day and have party at work. Then off to pcp.
Last night 730, the youngest son calls is dad. Coming around 12:00, can you fix us lunch dad?
Flip out, I asked if they wanted me to cook. Nope!
Wanted hubby to have a nice x-mas with boys since my kids are not coming. No matter how hard I try, still didn't happen.

Hopefully, your hubby knows where your heart is, and maybe the boys
didn't want to trouble you. You must take care of yourself and do the best you can.
I'm bad about worrying about everyone else first & feeling guilty no matter what.
That's not good!!
Please don't stress & do the best you can.

I agree with AZ-Di,
Take care of yourself and do the best you can.
I hope you all have a happy holiday.
Take Care.

Take care Alt, and try to enjoy your own Christmas... I'm sorry things didn't work out the way you wanted, but I hope you can have some good times anyway....you deserve a smile as much as anyone.

Happy Christmas Alt

Bram.