Hi Liz,

Are you married to the same man I am. Love Roz

y'know, i honestly didn't expect much in the way of replies to this post.....but i was still aggravated and thought that if i vented a bit, it would help me try to sleep last night ....and that did work, as i wasn't up till 3 plotting revenge.

but i truly appreciate the support and the humor that came with it.

artist, that computer/hubby bit is FUNNY....unfortunately, some of it is too true to be laughable....took me years to figure out how to unplug the mother-in-law module!.....but i'll be grinning like a fool all day thinking about most of it!

frogga.....i don't know if it's better or worse that he was drunk....it gives him an excuse (feeble, but an excuse), but messing with your legs is NOT excusable under any circumstances.....i favor the wagner treatment for his hangover...makes me wince just thinking about it!....also, right now, i prefer this version of the old comment: "men - can't live with 'em, can't shoot 'em", tho i could surely make a case for justifiable homicide in your case.....i think u too, deserve some serious grovelling!

roz, yes we probably r....tho we have lots of company....your comment made me laugh hard because years ago, i was working at a large company and a bunch of us were comparing hubby gripes over lunch and decided we were all married to the same man.....the entertaining part of that is that the men in question were my bozo science teacher, an italian stonemason, a philadelphia cop (african-american), a cable TV engineer, and a russian-background accountant.....we laughed ourselves silly at the thought that diversity didn't seem to apply to husbands.

sometimes it makes me feel a bit crazed when i get upset about this sort of thing, try to tell him about it and he says "i don't understand what the problem is".....i'm glad to have all of u, who DO understand the problem, and can help me laugh at it and put it in perspective.

lol...liz...but did you notice there were no takers?

i'm glad you got some sleep.

LOL Liz,

are you suggesting that husband mentality is not culture bound!? LOL - one of the world universal behaviour - husbands will be idiots. I swear that when you first date them they are men, and as time passes they become more and more baboon like!!!

I am very keen on the justifiable murder plan. It is VERY VERY VERY tempting!!

So, have you plotted revenge my dear? I think it's a great idea. That's what Dunk is getting - I got my carer to take photos last night (she had to get both of us off the floor, put him in my wheelchair and put him in bed before coming back to try and deal with me). However, I am feeling abit kinder to him today, it turns out that he had drunk quicker because he knew I was miserable and my pain was really high and he wanted to get back so that he could come and chill and talk to me for an hour or two (he knows that at night I find it so hard to distract myself - apart from talking to you guys or working), so he walked out semi-drunk and then passed through the kitchen on the way to my room and found a bottle of gin, which he and another friend then drank. So. I'm sort of forgiving him because he did try, although I nearly murdered him when he was insisting I had to be kissed and hugged before he would leave to go to bed *shudder* drunk vomit guy kisses. NEVER good!

Oh well. Shooting them is definetly tempting. Dunk is going to be in the dog house for a while. Keep thinking of what I want to make him do to make it up to me..)

LOL...it's a nice change from RSD to sometimes talk about something that most of us have to deal with daily... the joy of living with a baboon.

Loads of love and keep updating us!!

Frogga xxxxxxxxx

curious......that comment made me laugh.....but yes, i DID notice that nobody offered to take him off my hands....can't blame them much after listening to my ranting!

i have a feeling that the most evil revenge i could possibly imagine would be to make him read this thread....the more i think about that, the better i like it!

thx again for the laughs, gang!

Thanks to everybody this is sooo funny. Except for the puke kisses part.
Ok that was funny as well... Sue

I really do need to check in on this board more frequently. Thanks for the laughs & hope you ladies are doing better today.
Linmarie

My husband and I got a good laugh out of this, but then he said "yeah that could happen". I'll trade you. But you have to take the kids with the man.