Ugh! I am so sorry you are going through so much. Remember, you are one tough cookie. A thought on finances, not everyone would want to do this but in some situations it can be a big help...many counties have a program for people who cannot afford to pay their property tax due to disability. You have to do the requisite paperwork of course because on this program homeowners don't pay the tax so a lien is put on the home but does not get called in until the home is sold. Messes things up for passing the house on but as I said this does help some people in some situations. I have known of people doing when medical expenses overtook what they could pull off on limited income. God knows property taxes can eat a monthly budget. I don't know that you have to have approval on SSDI to get this. In our county you did not. Not every disabled person has it as we know. I hope things improve for you soon!

Sending Healing Love,
Littlepaw