Thanks you guys!
I felt so much better about the whole thing after reading your posts. I wish my nephew would just get on here one day, I know it would help him. I know that my sister is never going to change. She always wants to be the victim. One day it could be her headache, the next her back is hurting. The only difference between her and me (and my nephew) is that when she thinks no one is looking, she is fine. I don't expect to her to thank me for bringing up her son. I had to bring her up to. My mother was always working. I am the oldest of 4, she is the baby. My other sister has RSD also. She has always has had a very mild case, but she understands what Iam talking about and never puts me down. Iam hoping that if I just stick be Ray and be there for him, he will get through this. At least I can listen and not judge him.
You are all great as always.

Love Sue K.

Hello sweet Sue K. Dear, "Keep on doing what your doing with your sisters son"! Your amazing, you know that.. well, if you don't .. YOU KNOW NOW! Your sister sounds like a couple of my sisters, Sue. I have begun to not let it really bother me. You know, Sue, since I was Dx with RSD.. It seems like, It is my pain.. my body, my feeling this pain so much at times.. that I have really really have begun to not let anyone who does not know what we go through bother me as much. Hey, they don't know, they don't feel this pain.. heck, ya have to be in "OUR SHOE'S" ro feel this. Just like a alcholic, Sue.. we don't know how they feel, we havent been in their shoes, so I say.. Just ignore her, she is a pain n the "kootchie". Now, about your sister's son... Has he been Dx yet with anything? xrays taken, blood work?? Sue, I hope and pray that everything will for sure work out for your sister's son .LOL Hey, and like Mary and Froggy said.. they will knock her to the ground.. I got you "Back too" You have twins too?? I addmire you for all your doing, your an angel, Sue! Love and here are much needed hugs to you and your sis.'s son
Love, Desi