Oh Debby, my heart goes out to you and your family. I will keep you all in my prayers. No one should have to bury a child, it's agonizing.

debby i am so very sorry. i know yours and your families hearts are breaking.

my deepest and heartfelt sympathy for all of you. we are raising our grandson. i know just how precious that bond is.

sending lots of prayers.

I send you warm hugs and deep wishes that the pain lessens each day and you find reasons to smile. Remember the love, not the loss! For he will always be there in your memory.

You are right it is a parents worse nightmare. No matter how the babies get to us, the children are put in theright families and even if you did not give birth, he was your child heart and soul.

There is no cure for the broken heart, nor to prepare fot the hole in our hearts when a child is gone. I pray everyday to see my daughter, just to walk in the door or the phone to ring.

I think I still have not accepted the finality....But one thing I know is that I never would ahve made it this far without forum friends. I have been help up by the support and prayers of so many as you will be too.

Thre may be few words to console, but there are cyber waves of love and caring wrapped around you.
Hugs,
dianne

Again I wish to express my thanks from the family & myself for all the thoughts, prayers & good wishes for us at this time.

So far it doesn't look like murder. I think some young people he was with jumped the gun from just being there & the stress this has caused. Altho it is still under investigation. She is under a $5 milliong doallar bond. It started out at $280,000 but at the bail hearing the judge threw the book at her. She won't be out there killing off anymore people with her damn stupid decision of driving while drunk. Anyway I wanted to pop in with an update.

Thank you again,
DebbyV

She is hanging in there. This is a super hard time. I thought that I would let everyone know that she is doing OK....she is so very tired and worn out. This whole thing has just drained her....but she is SOOO Strong!

Ron’s viewing was today. The Service is tomorrow. You all please keep her in your good thoughts and prayers, and send all that you can her way. She can use all of the up lifting that she can get right now.

Michael was able to get home. He and his whole family. They are staying at Debby’s house. I think that this is a good thing.....for them to all be together right now during this awful time. I am so very grateful that they were able to get home.

I am sure that she will do more filling in and catching up when she has a bit more time to spare on the computer. I just wanted to try to help her out a bit.....and to let all of you know that she is doing as best as can be expected right now. Of course, her RSD is flaring....and she is dealing with some pretty awful pain right now.....but she is still managing to solider through. Like I said, she is one STRONG woman. A true survivor. I am so proud and honored to be able to call her “My Friend”!

Anyway....like I said just a second ago....please keep sending all of the good thoughts and prayers that you can spare to her and her family. They have such a hard row to hoe still....and will have for quite a while.


Jose

we will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

i know nothing we say will take the hurt away.

it is a relief to know this was not intentional..glad they threw the book at her...........

Debby,

With Deepest Sympathy. Thinking of you and your family at this sad time and wishing you peace.

Those we hold most dear truly never leave us.....they live on in the kindness that they showed, the comfort they shared, and the love they brought into our lives,

Although it's sad to lose those who are dear to us, there is comfort in remembering all the times they made such a difference in our lives