Hey guys,

Just asking for a alittle prayer for my DH.

Nothing life threatening so no worries there.

But he could lose his job which would be a set back for us and we wouldhave to sell our house most likley.

His boss is a real jerk (the stories about this man are beyond unbelievable) and bascially ripped my DH apart yesterday.

I could not believe how much he crushed my DH's spirit to the point my husband apologized to me for being a bad husband which is just ridiculous if you knew him.

You know being a boss its one thing to provide contructive criticism to an employee its another to completely crush their self esteem to make yourself feel better.

I believe in my heart this man does this to make himself feel better for his own bitter life and shortcomings.

So please say a prayer to lift my DH's spirit and not because he deserves it because he does not but please say a prayer for his boss to find compassion in his miserable little life.

I'm so sorry to read about your DH's position right now. I can't imagine what you both must be going through emotionally with this sress and uncertainty hanging over your heads.

I hope and pray his job will be safe, that things won't get any worse for him, and that his boss comes to his senses and starts acting like a compassionate human being.

I'll be saying a prayer for you both.

Shelley & DH, I'm so sorry this man has acted so immature and unprofessional. It's a shame that someone in an authority position would do this to someone else. IMO...he should be either demoted or fired.

We had a couple of hotheads at the place I worked but they didn't last long.

I pray that your DH doesn't take this man's opinion to heart. And I pray that the "boss" gets a wakeup call and soon.

shell shell,

everytime he feels down...

please point to that bottle of special sand where he wrote his proposal to you...

that should remind him of what a good husband he is....

And we'll be praying for you and DH...

and yes, pray for his boss also, because he needs more prayer than anyone else....

((((BIG HUGS))))

PS, don't drink syrup...LOL

and, should we do a FOOD drive for you guys?? (since shell shell is always hungry)

I heard she likes mints, lol!

Sending up prayers for you, your DH and his boss...

This is a frightening time economically even without the boss being a pain in the you know what... I'm sorry to hear your hubby is having to deal with this pain.

I pray things calm down and your hubby's boss see's the light and eases up on the hubby.


Abbie

Sending prayers up right now Shelly. Try to hold on and know we're here for you if needed.

Thank you all. I hope that all of your wonderful prayers comfort him as he is beating himself up.

I cant even begin to tell you the disgust, horror and anger I felt as DH repeated to me the things his boss said to him. The guy made it personal and wanted to hurt him deliberately. He is the type of person that makes himself feel better by hurting others among other sordid things.

If you only knew my DH who has the most character and integrity of anyone I know. And I am just not saying that. And he is really good at this job (I have always looked up to him jobwise because we are in the same business) Plus we have always known that this man is threatened by my DH talent-wise even though my Dh fully respects his bosses position and never tries to outshine him or do anything out of the line of authority.

My heart just broke for him last night and all I could say was I love you so much and I believe in you...but it was not enough to take away the pain of how his boss treated him. He destroyed a little piece of my DH and for that I will never forgive this man.

Consider it done, Shelley, I'll get Corrine and my other warriors too. But, I must warn you, we will also be praying that your anger is released and that you will forgive this man. You don't need a bitter thorn to bear on behalf of another.