We all need to vent...great job Eva...get it out. All part of processing.

Here is your safe space...no judgements; no need to explain...lots of compassion...people that still listen...a place to let your guard down.

I suppose I am just saying what this board is for me along with all the great information.

don't keep it inside ...we are here for ya
Johanna

dear friend

thank you for the encouragement
you provide me with
it does not fall on deaf ears
use it
may i be a support
in anyway i can
much love in
return

someone who cares

HAPPY FATHERS DAY!
dearest of all

my heart is heavy
as today we gather as a family
at my Christine's apartment
a wondrous thing
it is fathers day
AND I AM ONLY REMINDED
you would think that after
ALL these years my ex-husband
coasted into whatever don't know
but i'm reminded of having
to pick up his slack
and i did
not only non-existent
but never complied to
the simple divorce
to pay child support
and provide insurance
he at the time was a
GENERAL MOTORS
man on the line
welder
horrible what happened
it did not have to be that way

and now
all i need to do is get the
justice for yet another child
why is it
i misjudged his word
it was on a trust basis
he requested me to relieve
him from court
my mistake for trusting
the picture is clearer
and clearer each situation
that arises with him
and although she is 15teen
the damage has already been done
now
going back to court
he will be exposed to the
truth of the facts since
she was born and need
blood on reserve as she
is sickle cell trait a let
down from father make
so to the point

my floors in the condition they are in
THE TYPED ITEMIZED
BILL HE WROTE UP
ARE LIES LIES AND MORE LIES
IT HAS NO LICENSE # AS A DOCUMENTED
CONTRACTOR

all the work done was in cash
his request $1,300.00 IN LABOR
SPECIFIED HE GIVES $100.00 IN
CASH EACH FOR ALL THREE WORKERS
HE HAD WITH HIM
he claims he did $1,800.00 in labor
in addition states the flooring goes
into the closets not true
they were put in the closets
in the previous apartment
and i have learned much
with deceitful persons
the devil workers real hard for
them

i ask for any opinions out there

i will always be looked
upon as someone red flagged
this includes my job
here in this building
my doctor who threw
me to the curb
and did nothing but
bill me

back to my heavy heart
i do want to report this kind
of business transaction
he claimed he was always
on the up and up
this i question
since he let loose
i have all my receipts
for all materials to
do the floors and partial paint
i only was missing his bill
and the receipt i paid credit card
i was there a huge warehouse
he was the last one with it
as he needed it for p/u
at the specified platform
never handed it to me
and when i asked him for the
bill for insurance purposes
that's when he snapped
i could have called myself
but as my daughter not
Corissa
"THAT'S WHAT FAX MACHINES
ARE FOR"
BINGO
HE GOT A COPY FROM
THE COMPANY IN LESS
THAN A 1/2 HOUR


now Corissa has done without any extras
except her phone
and that enticed her
exposed to what his children
her sisters have and the trips
that are taken twice a year
2 months in the summer and
1 1/2 months in the winter
his children driven to school
and picked up by him most
times or wife
Corissa was driven to school by me
since kindergarten to 7th grade
i became ill then it all changed
the day i thought i had a stiff neck

i was about to write earlier
how is it both the men i had
children
the only good thing they will
ever have given me
both hoping they would get a
to grow a see it is not about them
they were angry at me for not
submitting myself to them
i LOVE MY CHILDREN TO MUCH
but should i let him to proceed
to pay the minimum
not take him to court
for there is where all the truth
will come out
as he was asked some 15teen
years ago to bring in his two
year tax returns
does anyone get the picture
as i haven't done anything wrong
but stupidly giving others the
benefit of the doubt
shame on me

someone who cares

Dear One Who Cares-

I am so glad you have been there for your children in the dual parent role as the man you married was without substance to either his vows or his word. Would that one could "throw him under a bus" but he will be sorted out in all good time when he meets his maker. I think I do not want to be there for that conversation.....

The garbage "word is worthless" contractor..... well, this is PRECISELY why I do not trust contractors. Even most recently, the HVAC technician who came highly recommended proved not to be trustworthy. Thus, I am pretty good about having contractors sign off to agreements for work to be performed, price to be paid, insurance they must carry, and release of LIEN rights [regarding properties people own as opposed to renting]. Lastly, pay the person WHEN work complete, bills PAID, workers paid, Lien Waiver in hand.... then they have earned our hard earned money... BUT NEVER CASHOLA, NEVER CASH..... why, because one has the harder time proving payment with cash- as there is lack of documentation.

NOW----- Search Angie's List, a place where people REVIEW all sorts of contractors and handypeople. Drop an A Bomb on the list regarding your flake contractor and help forewarn others before they are the recipients of such foul treatment.

I so do pray the medical issues for Corissa are resolved to the good. If you are going to court this time again regarding father's dilatory care of his flesh and blood, think about NOT cutting Him any slack..... unless that cut job goes a bit lower than you might have originally contemplated. He could probably do with a little slack in that department. Take his pinky feet and hold them to the fire on the behalf of your dear child. I well and truly hope and pray you have counsel for this matter.

Keeping you in my prayers.

my dear friend

your words ring
truth in my ears
the courts here in
this county need so
badly to do the work
they are assigned

why
because i know
never did i let my ex
get away with it
when ever i got word
i forwarded it to the
person in charge

as what is called a domino effect
the same goes with a system
a very long one but it's there

oh my friend
i just stopped for a moment
and realized who very much
i have been through
i have been fighting for
persons to do the right thing
do their job as it slows the
process or even halt it by
not doing anything
and the children
when divorced
i asked for nothing
for myself
just the children
that's right
no alimony
i was with council
for my divorce
did zip for my children

then there was G.M.
that never did as judge
ordered wage garnishment
zip for my children no insurance
persons sat on their hands
but i am who i am
a fighter for the underdog
in my case i have had council
3 times regarding this same issue
i learned an awful lot

i have done fairly well
when representing myself
with all the proof i have
a heck of a file

i just came from a new building
that was basically inhabitable
the owner threw in the towel
i broke him down

dear friend
i had municipal
and county
state
involved 10 years
but Judge Oliveri
caught him in many lies
for evidence and pictures
many other factors of proof
mostly correspondences
i think you get the picture

i am in good standing
have proof as Corissa's
father always paid through
the probation department
my mistake for relieving
him of probation department
now to put him back on it
allows me to open up
many cans of worms
but not at Corissa's expense
and will not treat her as he is

you support and understanding
is appreciated
naive maybe at first
trusting i wouldn't get ripped of
in that manner and behave
as he did no more

precious advice and what
a lift and a good awakening

i am so hurting helping
Christine
Sara was there
cut her hair
Corissa talking with big
sis
it was great
my hands are killing me
not to mention tired
Sara and hubby dropped
Christine at hospital
she is having a sleep test
done

so i will try and turn in
oh how everything hurts

so much i need and want to say
tomorrow
Eva is with us

may i again say
your words mean
what i feel

to continue

someone who cares

That today is a BETTER BETTER, maybe even SUPER day for you Eva my Friend!

Uh huh,

just me and eva
it was beautiful
we did everything
together
dear GOD
hear our prayers

someone who cares

I pray this is the miracle that was an answer to my prays
It be a miracle for all us suffers

WE ARE NOT NUTS!
IT IS NOT IN OUR HEADS
BUT PAINFULLY IN OUR FEET AND HANDS
SO MABEY THE DOCTORS WHO DONT BELIEVE
THEIR PATIENTS SHOULD NOW
SIT ON THEIR HAANDS AND FEET
UNTIL THEY LOOSE ALL SENSATION
LACK OF BLOOD SUPPLY
RELEASE AND ALL THAT PAINFULL TINGLING
THAT IS JUST A TASTE OF WHAT IT FEELS LIKE
ALL THOOSE WHO THINK THEY ARE GOD
BEST HUMBLE THEMSELVES AND LISTEN TO THEIR PATIENCE
AND YES FROM A DISGRUNTLED RECIPIENT
WHO PRAISES THE DOCTORS
AND STUDY IN THIS AREA BE PRAISED
TO THOOSE DOCTORS WHO CONTINUE WHO DOUBT THERE PATIENCE
ARE IN THE WRONG BUISNESS YOU DO
MORE HARM THEN GOOD

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