Thanks Tootsie

It would be nice if they were just kids, or if it were only in the past. But it was also from adults - teachers, clergymen, police officers, and prospective employers. Now it's from military officers. His officer is of the belief that blacks are born to be slaves - both on earth and in the hereafter. The officer is particularly vicious when he's drunk, but "strict" discipline and alcohol are encouraged on base. Drinking alcohol is practically the only "entertainment" they have available to them on their off hours. My son would appear weak if he complained about his treatment. :(

Like you, I have always told him the best "revenge" is success - and that's his job (I can't do it for him). What would you suggest I say to him to keep him from becoming overly angry and bitter over his current treatment? :( He will still be black when he gets out. :o

I had the notion your son was a little boy. I'm sorry.

I do know that adults are usually the role model for children, including those who are mean. I guess he can just plan to rise above it all.

You know he has one very good asset. YOU! Just keep encouraging him and send him a few good books by people who overcame the odds. There is a good site where you can find the name of men and woman who are biracial and successful. I'll send it to you if you want to PM me.

I'd send him a few books or tapes.

I cannot see why people belittle others... I mean how does that benefit society:confused:. If you hurt and anger people are they likely to be a benefit to society or an impediment?

My thought is to befriend and give folks a chance.

In your son's case keep reminding him that those who say the dumb things are showing their ignorance and making themselves big in their own minds by speaking down to others.


Tootsie