Stand your ground Kudos Kudos Kudos

good for you that is something I do not get before my issues with MS and using HC spots or a cane I was always polite and helpful and not rude yet now its like a green light to be ran over around here,

two days ago I was going into store to get my meds and was walking with cane and this Lady ? who could clearly see me struggle with my cane walking, as i am flaring right now, and my right side is useless, and literally pushes me aside to get a cart

needless to say i was a bit ticked off, so when she turned around with her cart I blocked her with my cane and told her ever do that again and I dont care male or female i will knock u on your @ss

( yes I was raised better sorry but she deserved to be plopped down on her kiester) rude arrogant so and so ,it boils me, god help my kids if they ever get caught acting like this i will tanned their hides from here till i cant tan em no more

I too have spoken up in lines, the other day some guy parked in HC spot but he park diagonal so he took up two of them, while in the checkout I proceeding to talk about kittys thread about HC parking out loud ,about taking pictures of license plates and sending them to local police stations of violators and deb got right into it and asked who would park like that , maybe we should go get a pic at which point i said out loud and in line oh I know who parked there, these two guys , the ones in front of me in line,in a big hurry to buy a pepsi they couldnt get out of there fast enough,

I speak out a lot its, rude ignorant and very shallow to think and behave in those fashion, nothing and I repeat nothing is that important to knock someone over to do, or to disrespect someone in the process

see I was doing my best to let this go but am glad you said something cause i feel so much better now


I agree speak out, make them think twice about it, its a shame we even have to say something , me have trouble saying something har har har

You warm the cockles of my heart. (not that I know what those are) You rock!!!!!!!

Before my MS trouble I spoke out, some confuse kindness or a handicap as weakness. I may walk slow but I am here cognitively. I still speak out, but not as much and I should. It's them, not you!!!! (or me or anyone else)

Good job, Cyn. My big issue is with the elderly who always seem to assume that since I'm not old enough, I must not be handicapped. When they keep giving me the look, I sometimes blurt out, "Hey, at least you got a chance to get old first!"

I admit, I have a bad attitude about it sometimes, but people can just be so inconsiderate like your bank buddy.

When I taught and went out with different handicapped kids, I always spoke firmly to those (adults) who gawked at my kids that obviously had a problem.

I should speak for me as much.

Good job - you and everyone else who posted here about speaking up. If we don't then who will?

I am SO tired of people who think that they are better than others.

Last time someone pushed me in order to get by I asked them (real loud) if they were born in a barn - 'cause they sure acted like it!! I got a dirty look but that's OK - I made my point. My Mom used to use that phrase all the time when we'd do something uncivilized - "were you born in a barn?"

I've become pretty thick skinned since being dx. I'll speak up now whereas before I wouldn't. I really don't care what the offending people think of me - they obviously don't care what people think of THEM.......

I must admit I have always been the type to speak up when I saw people acting badly, long before MS.

And I am far from perfect because I must also admit that I was momentarily envious of the handicapped parking when it first appeared, especially at the mall at Christmas. I quickly realized its importance.

I wonder if it leaves an impression when we speak up. I know I feel better.

I know my daughter had gotten in between a bully and his victim when she was in the middle school cafeteria, verbally chased the mean girl at camp into a cabin when she brought the obese girl's underwear out in order for others to have a laugh.

She has seen me go after people and maybe, if we cannot change the inconsiderate oaf, we can learn to defend ourselves...if only for the benefit of lowering our own blood pressure!

I think you're right. We may not change the oaf (know it's not my job anyway), but we show our children to stand up for themselves and those weaker. My kids have never been bullied (as far as I know!) and aren't bullies themselves. At 16 they include "different" kids in their lives They look at us and do model behaviors they observe. They are not mean, but never play a victim's role either. they're good kids.

[QUOTE=kicker;256826]You warm the cockles of my heart. (not that I know what those are) You rock!!!!!!!
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Teehee: I read this as, "You warm the cookies of my heart." Yum!

[quote=Twinkletoes;257285]Cockles? I got Cockles? And they come with Cookies?

Frank, don't feel bad! We've all been there over one thing or another..Like my mom says "..enough to make a preacher swear"..

Kitty, I think the magnet idea is great! I'll have to look into getting a few made..I don't think it's illegal to tag someone for stupidity..?

Kitty-Put me down for magnets, I have epoxy.