Sandy big prayers for u and your mom! I picked up the dog today and she is the prettiest sweetest dog ever and tonight I went to get Olivia in bed and Lilah jumped up in the middle of my bed and laid down....LOL I said oh hell no you get on your bed! I bought her one of those huge pillowy ones, but she listened and is lying on it beside my bed right now snoring away, only problem...I think I am allergic to her!!!! I am soooo stuffy and my throat hurts like crazy. I guess time will tell, the girl we got her from though said if it didn't work out she would gladly take her back so thats good. I don't think she realizes she is 80 pounds and taller than me because she seems to think she is a lap dog!!!